I have this friend and she gets jealous really easyily and I have another friend who she hates. My friend asked me if she was my best friend and I said her and my another friend were, and she got all mad at me. What should I do??? Plus she can be a big bit** sometimes and she is always nagging me!!!
2006-11-14 08:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear! I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one! I must admit she was a ***** 2!! I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure? my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
2006-11-14 08:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by jsswoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that you and your three best friends should sit down with your jealous friend and have a talk. it'll work, and all you had to do was tell her from the start that you had two bestfriends when you first me by intraducing them to her.
2006-11-14 16:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand firm, you should not give up your relationships with other people because she is so possesive of you.
The next time she starts just say "please stop this, I like you a lot but I also like this other person. i know you don't like her, you said before, but I do and that's not going to change anytime soon"
2006-11-14 16:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by rchlbsxy2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend doesn't care who your other friends are. They just care that you are their friend.
2006-11-14 16:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says tha you have to have a "best friend". if theyre your friend then theyre your friend.
2006-11-14 16:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by warrenotto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋