I agree, you need to tell someone. Don't hide it. You need to get prenatal care for you and your baby. Sorry its a difficult thing to deal with, but you better come clean. You think your old enough to have sex, than your old enough to take responsibility.
2006-11-14 08:44:21
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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If you were me, I don't think that you could hide it very long. My husband and I weren't going to tell anyone until I was 3 or 4 months pregnant. But, I got morning sickness really bad and I would vomit all the time. At work one day, I was vomiting into the bushes and everyone just thought I had a hang over, so I had to let them in on the news. My stomach started to pop out around 9 weeks and now, being 4 months pregnant, it is quite obvious that I am pregnant.
I'm also quite athletic. But, I just think it's how your body responds to the pregnancy to determine how long you can hide it.
If you do plan to hide it from your parents, I would highly recommend going to the doctor. Early doctor visits can reduce complications or problems with the baby. But, I would urge you to tell your parents as soon as possible for support.
I hope everything goes well.
2006-11-14 08:44:43
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answered by Lori M 2
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Until you start showing. That all depends. You would probably start showing around 5 or 6 months. By then it's too late.
I know a lot of people are not going to want to here this, but this one of the reasons I do believe in abortion. No one at the age of 14 should be having a baby. You shouldn't even be having sexual intercourse to begin with. You need to see a doctor and consider what options you have.
Do you want an abortion?
Do you want to give birth to the child and give it up for adoption?
Can a family member raise this child for you while you go to school?
Will you think twice before having unprotected sex next time? ....
2006-11-14 08:49:44
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answered by Anonymous
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If you're "lucky" enough to not show, you could get away with it for 6 months, especially if you dress right.
HOWEVER, a pregnancy should never be hidden, especially at 14. You need to be getting medical care regularly from the first trimester; and what's the point in hiding it from others when they're going to figure it out eventually?
2006-11-14 08:45:26
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answered by desiderio 5
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Depends on your body. I understand why you'd want to keep it hidden, but consider this, the younger you are when you get pregnant (such as teens and pre-teens) the higher risk you're considered because your body isn't fully matured and is now trying to support a growing baby. You might be able to hide it until around 17 - 20 weeks if you're lucky, but for your own health and that of your baby, you really need to confide in someone and take care of yourself. Next time (which I hope you learned your lesson) tell him to cover it up and invest in some birth control, in all honesty you are way too young to have a baby, you can't even work yet and kids are expensive. Good luck to you~
2006-11-14 08:43:43
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answered by justwondering 5
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Hiding because you dont want anyone to know, as long as you are going to the doctor and having your check ups like you and the baby need, can be anywhere from 4 to 8 months. It really just depends on how the baby is growing, how your body adapts to being pregnant and so forth. My first child you could never tell I was pregnant if I wore the right clothes. I really didnt put on any weight with him but my second child was different because he grew different and positioned himself different. I told everyone in my family but my dad, even though I was 23 I wasnt married and he wasnt fond of that, I told him when I was 7 months pregnant because I thought people could start telling but he never realized it then that I was nor my step mom. So it just depends on your body and the baby. But someone needs to know so you can be seen by a doctor like your suppose to otherwise you are putting you and that baby at harm.
2006-11-14 09:01:25
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answered by Anonymous
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i hid mine until 5 months. its not a good idea to hide it though. i was 16, i didnt hide mine from everyone though i told mt parents. youre gonna need help. this kid wont just go away. some people start showing right away at like 1or even 2 months. i was lucky. dont try not to gain weight either it could seriously harm your kid, and you need prenatal care. i know youre young, but you were mature enough or stupid i dont know which to have sex and get pregnant. if you want a healthy baby, and an easy delivery, you need to get to a doctor. i could go on and on about how important it is. bottom line, no matter how mad you think your parents will be, theyll be a million times more pissed off if you hide it or they hear it from someone else. i didnt look pregnant for very long after i had the baby, im already back into my old clothes. im VERY small and had a normal sized baby so im lucky i didnt show
2006-11-14 08:45:25
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answered by Ashley F 2
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you shouldn't be having sex at that age never mind trying to hide a pregnancy.
With that said, being athletic you probably will start showing by 5-6 months or sooner, the thiner you are the earlier your belly starts to show. I am heavy so I didn't look all that pregnant until I was just about to start into 7 months.
2006-11-14 08:44:25
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answered by Anonymous
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As a mother of 3, this question scares me more than you can ever imagine. If you cannot talk to your parents, find an adult that you can talk to because you are gonna need someone to help you out. No matter what it is you decide to do, the best thing right now is to take care of yourself and that baby. Get to a doctor or planned parenthood place and make an appointment to make sure that you are indeed pregnant. After they determine that you are, then you need to find help for yourself as well. Please do what is best for you and that baby, but don't feel pressure from anyone to do anything that you don't want to do. And if you decide that hiding is the only thing that you can do, take the baby to a firehouse, hospital or somewhere safe. Do not just abandon him/her. Please take care of yourself and God Bless.
And to answer your question, you could start to show as early as 10 weeks and as late as 6 months. But your chances of not showing til late are small indeed.
2006-11-14 08:50:50
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answered by luvkiss1973 2
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Ill be honest, i lost my viginity when i was almost 15, iw as lucky enough not to get pregnant. however i was smart enough t o know i couldn't hide naything from my parents. i am 19 now and 4 months pregnant and i am showing. I live with my husband to be and it was still hard for me to tell my parents. I still told them right away ebcuase i wanted the support and advice the could give me, it also releases a lot of stress of of your shoulders. don't let anyone give you any negative thoughts becuase you're already going through a tough time- good luck to you
2006-11-14 09:45:39
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answered by Anonymous
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OMG, dont listen to these people with rude comments. YOU DONT EVEN KNOW THE WHOLE STORY PEOPLE! FIND OUT THE FACTS BEFORE YOU JUDGE! Anyways, sweetie, you gotta tell someone even if it is not a parent or guardian. They have programs out there, go to planned parenthood or a private doctor who will keep it confidential, you need to be seen by a doctor above all things. As for hiding it, people are different, I had a friend who didn't show a belly till her 7th month but my aunt had a belly already at 3 months...it just depends on you.
2006-11-14 08:56:43
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answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6
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