I dont know what i should to about my friend?

Question

Me and her we best friends then she started saying stuff about me and when i confronted her about it she say she didnt say but someone else twisted her words. After that we started talking again, soon i was told i have depression and i took a break and stayed at my aunts while i was there she called me. I told what had happened and that was the only time she called me. Then when i got back i started a new job and was going in for training. i said to her that i was going into training that afternoon and she replyed with 'Dont cry about it' as if i wasnt happy about it. Now i've been working for almost a month and i had to serve her the other day and she was being nice to me. Does she still like me as a friend? Does this mean anything? Should i take the time to be friends with her again?

My mum hates her but doesnt know her like i do. She drinks and smokes but i think (maybe) she's grown up and changed. She was the first person i ever drank with i just dont know if we should be friends again.

Answer 1

if u guys been friend for a long time..and u still want her friendship then try to be friend again...if u dont trust her anymore..or have doubt about wether she care about this friendship or not...or still want u as a friend..y dont ask her..well if its hard to do it directly..then send a message or something...
ur situation is better than mine..give u my quote.." good friends is hard to make and more difficult to keep.." or " friends is easy to made but hard to keep"..oh well im a failure in friendship relationship stuff...dont take my advice..hihi..

Answer 2

I dont know what Georgina L is goin on about here, i reckon shes just mean. I believe that if YOU can honestly say she was your best friend then you should make an effort to re form your friendship as she may have not intended to be mean but just didnt know how to respond to the huge bombshell you dropped on her over the phone. had she been told in person she may have responded differently and attempted to be there for you but having you at your aunts made this difficult. in the end if you dont try to be friends again you wont know what would have happened and could end up regretting it for the rest of your life, then if she still isnt interested atleast you will know, sure it will hurt for a while but the important thing is YOU WILL KNOW!!!

THEN AGAIN SASMALLWORLD'S GOT A POINT

Answer 3

dont' Depend on this girl... just be friends, not too close. it sounds like u have Fun w/ her (drink together, etc), but u can't always *trust* her to be there for u, or defend u, etc. especially since u are sensitive, going thru lotta stuff (diagnosed w/ depression, etc), it's more important for u to have Strong, Good, Positive, Healthy friends around you. always seek those things, and u will be better off.. this girl may or may not be bad news, but ur mom doesn't like her either, so it may tell u something. not that moms are always right, but right now u are going thru some stuff and need GOOD things, not stress or drama. good luck! maybe later when u are stronger person and meet more good people, u will realize that u shouldn't have to work so hard to be someone else's friend.. it should come naturally. :) ~~

Answer 4

First if you want to find out if she's a true friend then tell her something Minor that you don't care about any body knowing and then see if it get back to you, but I'm not saying lie,so just wait and see.Maybe she does just want to be friends,but not sure how to,be sensitive to some one with depression,everyone makes mistakes,but time will tell.wait and be patient.True friends are hard to come by,especially supportive ones.

Answer 5

fu ck her girl, has she acted like your friend?! go with that