I really do - as a guy I think about sex like a million times a day. I am in a happy committed relationships but you let some guy walk by with cute rear and I just can't stop day dreaming!
In a lot of ways I have always been prideful of being gay - I felt superiour to my straight counterparts for many reasons but on this one thing I cannot. I am a dog about thinking about sex.
Are other happyily married gay men this way?
Are ANY women this way?
2006-11-14 08:24:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am faithful - have been for nearly 16 years. I just - you know can't stop eyeing the candy bowl!
2006-11-14 08:34:27 · update #1
The answer is simple, your a man ! Look at the straight men, we are all the same gay or straight. We think about sex, desire sex, can not help to notice the hot person who just walked by you.
I have been in a relationship for 3 years. I think about sex all the time lol I admit it.
I can not help but to see a nice rear go by, a hot smile, a good body, and I am like DAMN.
This is one area where men gay or straight rate the same. Interesting how that works huh ?
♂
2006-11-14 09:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Brad B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hey I dont think that it is wrong in any way and if someone tells you that they are wrong. You can be in a releationship and still look I mean your not touching and you have never cheated. Your partner has no right to think any way different because you havnt given him any reason too. I mean by nature your always going to be thinking about sex and other things but that is just it your thinking about it your not doing it. So I say go ahead and dream its not hurting anyone.
2006-11-14 16:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by brandenbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's an old adage that goes:
"You can look at the menu all you want, but that doesn't mean your going to order from it"
It's natural to think the way you do, I do also. It's normal to want variety in life, the difference is in recognizing that it is fantasy and thus healthy. Life would be boring if we were all the same shape, size, colour, look etc.
Relax, accept what and who you are, and don't sweat the small stuff.
cheers
BTW, yes I have a Husband
2006-11-14 16:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Never mind the cute rear end; show me some nice shoulders (or eyes) and my mind is off and running.....
FWIW, I'm a happily married (29+ years) straight woman!
For some folk, it's a matter of "I'm on a diet, and sticking to it..... but boy, it's fun to look at the menu anyway". For others, "the plural of spouse is spice!" Your mileage may vary.
2006-11-14 17:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by samiracat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, although not officially married to my boyfriend, I know that we will always be together.
On that note, of course I look. He looks.
Other guys look at him, or me, or the both of us.
Its fun and harmless as long as you have a good level of trust and understanding in your relationship. Otherwise it might lead to some hard feelings, but never has once in my relationship. Plus its very interesting to see the huge difference in the types of guys that we look at.
Peace
2006-11-14 16:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by jrayhp 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Am I allowed to answer? Please?
I'm not happily married yet (there's still hope for me, though, right?), but I think about it nearly all the time too, and I'm pretty sure that won't change whoever I'm with.
As long as you're faithful to your husband, I don't think it matters, does it?
2006-11-14 16:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With the exception of men with health issues - ALL men are this way. Gay, straight, doesn't matter. It's how we're made.
2006-11-14 17:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rob B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My hubby and I do it all the time. We look, we point it out, and we share a mutual admiration for those we see. We are happily married and monogamous, but we're not dead!
2006-11-14 19:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's human nature. Just because you're with someone monogamously doesn't mean you quit noticing attractive people.
As someone once said "I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he eats at home"
2006-11-14 16:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i'm a girl and i think about doing guys all the time. but secretly, i like to look at girls' butts!! just judging them
2006-11-14 16:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Krissi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋