2006-11-14 08:21:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They tell you they love you for who you are, not someone who you think they want you to be, you say you act on it, try looking at how you do this, maybe you think because he tells you he loves you that thats it, marriage, kids & move in together time.. Get a grip.. just because a guy tells you he loves you, doesn't mean to say that you have to start thinking & behaving differently.. He loves you for who you are, not what society or anyone else tells you, you should be; I know I would run off, the way some women act when I tell them i love them, they start acting differently, & controlling. Time is the key, you don't have to act on every word that means something., try responding & listening to what he is saying, & why he says it.
2006-11-14 09:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are so afraid of commitment these days and it's no wonder - most of them are too immature to handle the concept. Women on the other hand tend to be ready for anything and they get all emotional about stuff and the guy gets scared that you might be acting like you want something more emotional or a commitment. They scare themselves off - it's not you!
2006-11-14 08:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think some guys get the FEAR! It's a combination of seeing your life mapped out in front of you and commiting to the idea of one person for the rest of your life. I know a couple of guys that went really strange just before they settled down and then were fine. He may not be the one and you are supposed to have loved and lost before you settle down. Some people are lucky enough to find their true love first time, but I think that may be rare in this modern complicated world.
He may just be an As*hole though...
2006-11-14 09:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by urbanrt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's you. Did you ask and the guy said "Yeah, I love you"?
If he says it unprompted he means it. Otherwise you are just creating an uncomfortable situation that he feels compelled to respond to positively...then run like hell.
2006-11-14 08:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by beatnik75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys just get off on stuff like that. If they sense you have feelings for them they'll say it first, just to get a response maybe, ego boost I guess. Try and leave him to it, if he does love you, he'll come back, if he dont.....he's a ego boosting idiot or very young and childish.
Good luck
2006-11-14 08:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men tend to run from any feeling that does not come from their lower head. They're just dumb and immature when they do that.
You know a man is a man when he's not afraid to let his feelings be knownand appreciate another's emotions.
2006-11-14 08:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i love my g/f to bits and never run away, and i never would anyway, shes the best things in the world
2006-11-14 08:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by stringostar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like the chase, play hard to get and we'll be all over you.
2006-11-14 08:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Darth Emiras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are dealing with little boys if that is the case. real men stand behind their word. Nuff said.
2006-11-14 08:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a good1,im in the same boat as that but i have my reasons why i cant be with her and they are good,as for u maybe he doesnt love u the way u love him or he is scared of that commitment atm or he just says he loves u coz he thinks thats wat u want to hear!goodluck to u hope it works out for u and u find the wright guy who means wat he says!
2006-11-14 08:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by smokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋