I used to be able to have great sex, but now I cant have an erection! Has this happened to anyone?

Question

I used to be great in bed! I could go on for hours and I would ejaculate up to 3 or 4 times. Now its hard to get excited when my girlfriend touches me and I can barely go on for five minutes. Has this happenned to anyone before?? I have had multiple partners, and I had anal sex with 3 differrent girls, it was my first experience. I dont know if that affected me! And the worst part about it is that I love my girlfriend very much. Any advice?

Im very young, only 20 and iam healthy! Im not overweight and I used to have sex very frequently at an early age. Could this be a problem?

Answer 1

YES!

And, what is happening, is that you are actually and truly in love, so the excitement overwhelms your dispassionate view and lust for the physical side of love. You are emotionally in love. Sex is OK, but, no longer the epitime of what is 'good' in your life.

Tell her, and you both will need to do some role playing and dressing up for it. so that you will have the detachment to please her longer, if that is what she really wants from you. I don't think her need is truly for great stamina, if she is emotionally similar in the relationship now. But, it also depends upon her age. Women peak later. Men peak at aobut 22 to 26, women at about 28 to 34.

Some of us take herbs, like yohimbe, that, in the right amount, which is actually very small, gives the same effects as you described you enjoyed. Except, some of us are in our 60's and 70's and one fella is 86!

The ladies ask us to take it, so we'll have some 'lead in our pencil'. I did the Starlight International Male Well Pack, with the Taurus capsule. One every 12 hours. 60 tablet bottle.

You have to look in the phone book for a vendor, or on the web at:

Answer 2

well, short of suggesting you are out of shape or not cabable of sex at all, I guess there are only two possibilities left.

The first being you have aphysical problem for which you shoudl take yoru equipment to the local doctor and have everythgin thoroughly checked out.

The second is there are stress elements in yrou life that are keepign you form relaxing enough to enjoy sex or tennis or anythign. For that analyze your life, school, sork, etc. and find the source of the pressure and stress and work to deal with it effectively. And no, ignoring them or getting drunk or stoned are not effective ways to deal with and eliminate the causes.

Answer 3

Your problem can be diagnosed by a urologist. The problem can be derived by either a heart condition your unaware of, or as simple as low grade, or low to border line diabetic condition. Either way my friend. Don't be overly alarmed about it until you've checked out all the possibilities. After all, they do have several medications now available for this condition called E.D.S. Erectile disfunction. Viagra, and Levitra to name a couple. But they are by prescrption only, and quite expensive without insurance.

Answer 4

Are you having any other physical symptoms? Are you overweight or do you smoke or drink? These things can affect your performance. Do you still have morning erections? If not, you need to see a doctor. You may need a testosterone blood test.

Answer 5

Dude get to a doctor and step on it and tel him this story.

Men:
Any problems with erections is a possible sign of heart disease

Answer 6

Happens to anyone anytime. go to Chinese acupuncture treatment several sessions. it will help.

Every year your virility get less & less & less. No permanent way to stop this.

Answer 7

dont be afraid and confused during sex

Answer 8

get some arousal pills...?

Answer 9

Thanks for all the dirty laundry. Think I'll go take a shower now.

Answer 10

watch porn