I am 13 going to be 14 years old tommorow and my bf is 16. I go to a boarding school(all girls school) but we met at a school outing and he we exchanged numbers last year and have been to gether ever since. Anyway over the summer stuff started happening but he never went all the way in so i never bled.I thought i was fine but a friend told me since i am athletic i play soccer, hockey in the winter, and track in the spring i might not have a thingie anymore?I still have not had a period since september and i do normally skip around a little but i am worried.My stomache is swollen almost bloated like, my boobs grew a little and i feel tiered.I go home evey other weekend and i will see my bf can he buy me a test?are they accurate?
2006-11-14 08:00:51 · 18 answers · asked by Nora W 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Last time we did anything was september 15 and i felt him go kind of far in me that why i am worried.
2006-11-14 08:02:16 · update #1
I cant tell my mom!!!!i will get in trouble!
2006-11-14 08:05:10 · update #2
you can be pregnant. I highly suggest that you have him get you a test. They are at most pharmacys, and even at the $ store. You don't have to be a certain age to buy them. Just so you know, if sperm touches the outside of your vagina and goes inside then you can get pregnant. It does not matter if he goes in you all the way. start using birth control if by chance you are not pregnant.
oh and if you are pregnant then you will have to tell your mom. Unless you want the chance of getting hurt really bad. You will have to get care from a specialist, and that will have to be done with a parent/ legal gaurdian. good luck
2006-11-14 08:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. If you really are pregnant, your Mom is going to find out eventually. You'd be best off telling her so she can help you through this time. She may be upset, but she loves you more than you know. You might just have a new life growing inside of you. Life is very precious and take care of it. Even if you can't take care of a baby yet, don't give up. A lot of people might want you to have an abortion, but life is a miracle.
By the way, I just found out that I'm pregnant and the home test is usually accurate. But sometimes, they do read a "false" result. It's best to take it twice to make sure. God bless you and guide you through the next several months.
2006-11-14 08:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably pregnant, and you can and should tell your Mother. She will be concerned for you, but she loves you and will help you more than you can imagine! She will be upset of course, but only because she will be scared for you too. Having a child at 14 will change the hopes and dreams that she had for you, but you will be fine, just be strong. You behaved like a grown up with your BF, now you must behave like one for yourself, your family, and your child. I had a friend once who had a child at 14. They were very loving, and my friend, the Mom, didn't regret having her daughter, quite the opposite. The tests that you get in the grocery store or drug store are accurate, but you probably don't need one, it sure sounds like you are pregnant. If your BF ejaculated (came) inside you, you were risking pregnancy. Chances are you tore your hymen on a bike, riding a horse, or some other time (maybe tampons?). It is not unusual for virgins to have no pain, tearing or bleeding the first time with the active lifestyles most of us lead. You need to call your Mother, you will cry, she will cry, and then you will be closer than ever. You really need her right now.
Best of luck, I will keep you in my prayers, for strength, courage, an easy pregnancy, and wisdom raising your child
2006-11-14 08:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it sounds like you are probably pregnant. Your boyfriend can buy the test for you and they are 99% accurate. So I would say get a test as soon as possible. You could even go and buy the test. You don't have to be a certain age. Hope this helps.
2006-11-14 08:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by brittneyn127 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more than likely you are pregnant and you need to go to the store and buy a test. U can buy it urself. you are about 2 months and and u need to find out soon so that you can get proper treatment at a clinic if u plan to keep it. The best way to find out is if u go to planned parenthood, its quick, just be prepared for the outcome. Also if u find out u are then seek a counselor at the clinic because u are so young. keep ur head up!
2006-11-14 12:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i bet you are so scarred...your symptoms are pregnancy related. if you were found to be pregnant would you keep the child beings YOU are still a child? you can get a test and they are usually accurate. buy a first response because they have 2 tests in a box that way you can be for certain if you're pregnant. do you have a local health clinic you can go to and get tested?
good luck!
2006-11-14 08:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you could be pregnant, anyone can buy a pregnancy test and they are accurate as long as you wait till you miss your period. my advise to you is stop having sex, you are WAY too young and do not need to have a baby when you are still a child yourself, enjoy life being a kid while you can. babies are alot of work and responsability. stick with the sports and leave the guys alone for a while.
2006-11-14 08:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
breaking apart consisting of her will make it worse! Omg do not attempt this! you're her boyfriend, in case you want her, you'll stick by her area no count number what, and make her keep in mind that she's too major to her kinfolk and also you to go away now. You 2 are 14 you've your lives beforehand of you, no matter if you've the toddler or not, your lives are literally not over! there is continually a thanks to do issues. And trust me, God does not grant you with something you may want to not manage, and if she isn't, perhaps that is a lesson realized to be a lot extra careful next time, pricey. :)
2016-11-29 03:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can purchase a test at any grocery/drug store. You should find out as son as possible so you can get the best care for you and your baby. A pregnancy test rarely shows a false negative reading.
2006-11-14 08:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his penis was in you at all (all the way or not) then the possibility is huge. They symptoms you state sound very much like pregnancy. The home tests are very accurate, you should take one. EPT and clearblue easy are very popular, very accurate. Good luck, honey.
2006-11-14 08:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋