what can i do to slow it down? this is SO embarrassing. i am in my 30s, but i still *** superfast. sometimes before intercourse and it never lasts more than a minute or 2 what can i do?!?!?
it is so humiliating when this happens with a new partner....
2006-11-14 07:58:57 · 8 answers · asked by superfastbob 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
make sure she has been satsfied through foreplay first...then, if it's the first time with someone new, you can blame it on the fact that you were so turned on by her orgasm that you couldn't hold back, you tried, but you just couldn't help it, she turned you on so much! That way she'll only be slightly disappointed rather than left wanting.
Speak to someone at a sex store for products that will help you last longer or desensitize you so you don't *** so early. Also, slow it down buddy, good things are worth waiting for...so take your time, and once you feel it building....stop! and wait for your body to settle down again. It might take a while to understand that the building point and the point of no return are two totally different things.
Anyhow, rest easy knowing that many girls have experienced this and we're just fine, life does go on. It's a learning process, so you'll have to study up and possibly get some new things from your trip to the toy store that'll help ya out. Good luck, and have fun, slowly...remember it's not a race...but you should still let her fininsh first.
2006-11-14 08:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself the book Male Sexual Endurance (An Illustrated Self-Help Guide To Prolonging Pleasure) by Robert W. Birch, Ph. D.
You can get it from amazon or quite a few other places online.
It helped me out, took a lot of work and time, but definitely helped.
In the meantime, I have learned, from experience, that if you make sure your partner is satisfied first, before intercourse, they will usually not mind your early misfiring too much.
2006-11-14 08:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow yourself down mentally.
Also you might want to try doing a daily exercise. Tighten you groin like you are going to pee and do it 50 times a day. See if you can hold it longer and longer. It helps increase your muscle strength down there.
2006-11-14 08:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be horrible.......but the first thought that came to my mind was say HEY OK I did it once now I'm ready for the second go round!! (and hope that's longer?) Honestly I don't know the answer but I wish you luck.
2006-11-14 08:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by alwayslarat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice a lot..a LOT. jerk off as many times as you can before you think you may have sex....seriously.
also, prolong foreplay.
it's no big deal really, foreplay is often the best part.
2006-11-14 08:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ralley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm try working ur PC muscle.. try searching on google..! it may help you stop the ejaculation whenever u want it to stop it.
2006-11-14 10:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, how about asking this question in the men's health section?
2006-11-14 11:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Masturbate before your date!
2006-11-14 08:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by JS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋