i have this friend and she's always having problems with us. like i was invited to michelle's birthday party and she was not but were both friends with michelle. so you would guess that she would be mad at michell but know she's mad at michelle and everyone who is going, and i'm not going to not go just because she dosn't want me to. and she dose stuff like that al the time. some dose or dosnt do something she gets mad at everyone not just that one person and i'm tryed of it but i don't want to lose a friend. and any time i tr yto talk to her she get mad at me for trying to help her from getting mad. and i really like (as a friend) but i just can't stand much more of her glarning at me from the other side of the room. how do i get it to stop without losing a friend.
2006-11-14 07:44:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just stop talking to her.
2006-11-14 07:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds jealous and spiteful. Tell her the next time she acts this way towards you That maybe if she wasn't so mean all the time and wanting everyone to feel sorry for her she might actually get invited to the parties!
2006-11-14 07:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AY has hit it on the head - identify the problem and find the right solution for you - please dont listen to people like Sally who are obviously young and frivolous and have never had to suffer what you have, many young people just dont know, what seems like dismissiveness or cruelty is their way of dealing with something they dont understand and probably fear. Also drugs (illegal) , especially weed, will only make things worse unfortunately (speaking from hard earned experience here) so please dont go down that road. All the best.
2016-03-28 05:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but she doesn't sound like much of a friend.
This person is toxic and you obviously don't feel good when you are around her, so why be around her?
2006-11-14 07:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me it looks like she don't want to be your friend she not really comfortable of you being around her. Move on and leave her alone find a new friend who's happy when you are around and never mad and sad.................... ..........Good luck and take care............?
2006-11-14 08:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her sincerely and without judging. maybe she has some problems she is not telling you about. try to be compassionate and understanding without being judgmental. good luck
2006-11-14 07:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she has to choices stay mad or get over as my grandma would say. it will be her loss...... She does know who her are truly real friends.
2006-11-14 07:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by tejana352004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her to pieces but she needs to chill out! tell her if you cant be honest about something with her then she doesnt respect your friendship. hope all goes well.
2006-11-14 07:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you want and stop worrying about how this girl feels. she doesn't care about you.
2006-11-14 07:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be bipolar if her mood fluctuates so much
2006-11-14 07:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋