Interested in exploring a spiritual, intellectual connection with someone?
2006-11-14 07:24:30 · 23 answers · asked by Nadia 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is possible for one not to be focused on sex. However, the thing always appears in one's mind atleast for a second. Even in those of good ones. But it is not his fault. Humans are made as such. Whenever two negative forces meet, they tend 2 b attracted.
The main thing is how one is capable of controlling his emotion and get over that dirty thoughts in his mind. This depends in the virtues embeded in one's culture.
If u take my example, even i have looked many times from such angle but than strongly wiped off such thoughts by thinking positively.
Same thing applies to opposite side also. Girls also can not claim to be clean. It's in our nature itself. And to some extent it is useful for our survival on the world (by increasing population).
Thus, what is needed is to overcome such thoughts rather than expecting them to be fully out of one's mind. The person who ovecomes fast is gentleman.
The only thing to remove such toughts is to see all as "atma" rather than 'he' or 'she' and avoiding the western culture.
2006-11-14 08:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Parth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse,Friend.Though Sex Is Quite A Natural Thought In A Human Being's Mind.But You Should Not Think That Each & Everyone Of Them Is Always Thinking About Sex.I Am Proud To Be One Of Them.Thanks For Asking.
2006-11-14 16:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by The Mad Devil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are in the flesh sexual beings and sex is always in the picture; if not in sharp focus.
Exploring a spiritual and intellectual connection with the opposite sex is, to my mind, the height of sexuality. I guess this is a nice way of saying that you don't know what you are asking for.
There was a time, and I don't know if it is over, when I would have sold my soul for such a connection!
2006-11-16 00:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
None that I know of! Sure, I think there are lots of guys who want ALL or some of those things, but sex is almost always on their minds (every 20 seconds, to be more specific...according to studies!). It's natural.
Still, you might find a guy into the kind of intellectuall relationship you describe, but most likely, ONLY if he's not at all attracted to you.
In my experience, men and woman can almost NEVER be "just friends"!
2006-11-14 15:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey nadia, i am a guy and i think a honest answer to ur question is...ummm...well no. I can have a general interesting converstaion for hours on end, why even days. But if the other person is attractive, the thots WILL come down to sex.
2006-11-14 16:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by tornjeansandguitar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not ?There are varieties of men.So there must be some men who are really thoughtful,enjoy conversation and connecting ,not focused on sex.I am sure there are .men like this.
2006-11-15 00:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, There are still men like that. In fact, I met a handful of them in India.
2006-11-15 08:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes... there are... their main focus isnt on the sex part of it... but the 'whole package"
dont get me wrong... they still are interested in the sex... but some are even MORE interested in the whole package"
I finally found one in my husband... (however... this is my 3rd husband) Good luck!
2006-11-14 15:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by Cande 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to know is not to present one's self as a 'sex product' for a change and c if anyone comes along
I think there r .... or maybe that just makes me feel better ...
2006-11-14 15:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by DuDeTte 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi ,
First of all i wud like to clear of the notion that such people dont exixt, they do and i say this COZ I AM ONE OF THEM.Its only that such people r few.
looking forward for replies
2006-11-14 17:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by no_offence 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋