Married people with young kids only?

Question

How often do you have sex? Is it satisfying?
How often do you go out alone with your spouse? or them w/o you?
Do you stray or are you thinking of it?

Just comparing it to my own life.

Answer 1

We have sex about 1 every two weeks. It is usually quick. Find something to keep the kids interested for a little while. Then it is a race. First we take care of her because it takes longer then I get mine. But the entire thing can take as little as 10 min.
We do not get out alone very often. 1 time every 4 months.

Yes I do think about straying.

Send me an email, I would love just to vent frustration and talk about it. I would like to know someone else is in the same situation.

Answer 2

Sex with small children is very scheduled. At least twice a week would be a good start. As long as the sex is good, it doesn't matter how often. If the sex is not so satisfying, find a sitter for one night a week and just pretend you're a couple of rabbits. I never go out alone-by choice (no time). He goes out every couple of weeks with his friends. Have strayed in the past but not really worried about it now...too much to lose.

Answer 3

I have been married for 2 years, and I have a 6 month old baby boy. We have sex quite often, maybe 4-5 times a week. Satisfying hell yes..orgasms every time, We might go out maybe 3 times a month sometimes 2 it depends on if we have a babysitter. Straying, when I first got married I did, but once I realized what I have at home, why would I wreck that..

Answer 4

I have been married 10 years, with 3 kids ages 9,7,and 2. Sex only about 4x's a month mostly. Sometimes 4x's a week. It just depends on what kind of week you get. Some is satisfying, others not. I never get to go out alone with my husband b/c I recently moved and really don't have anybody to babysit. I do not stray, but I'm sure everyone thinks about it every now and then.

Answer 5

Usually only go out with the kids in tow, but every now and then we get out alone. As for the sex, I don't get as often as I would like but it is always satisfying with my wife. And no I'm not thinking about straying.

Answer 6

We rarely go on our own, simply because we don't trust anyone to watch our children. If we do go out we spend the time with our children and if they are not there we find ourselves getting 'stuff' for them or thinking of them. We absolutely love spending our time together as a family. I don't nor have I thought of straying and have had the offer made but made a vow and am not interested in giving up what I love without question. Good luck

Answer 7

I have a 2yr and a 8 yr and we have sex now about 3 times a week, but when the boys was smaller it was like 1 a mo.. and no it is not alway satisfying, it is quick becouse we have to find small times to do it. me and my husband go on a date night 2 time a month and the kids stay with grandma and it is like old time.. but we make time for each other and we flirt with each other, and taps on the back side be play ful... I do go out with out my husband once a month for a girls night, he very rearly goes with out me.. I would never stray we will work though it.. if your love is ture you can work at it and make it work.. have fun with him... try sex in other places then your bed or your home...

Answer 8

Enough to make the 2 children we have. 7 year old girl and one on the way. Sex is very satisfying. We go out alone enough where we enjoy eachothers company but sometimes rather have the kids with us. Im pregnant so taking one of them isnt an option its a must lol. I dont go out with out him i dont see a reason to i have all the time to myself when he is at work that is enough for me. I would never cheat on my husband if you really love someone how would cheating on them be loving them. I wouldnt think about it because its not right im happy with who i am with. If i wasnt then why did i get married.

Answer 9

Whenever my husband is off work which is usually every 3rd weekend. Yes it is satisfying and we dont get time together but maybe 2 times a year. My husband doesnt party alone but he does do more without me I stay at home and take care of the kids. I havent ever cheated never thought about it but i have thought about how I wish he was more considerate about things but not want to be with another man.

Answer 10

We try to each night and yes it is satisfying. We have trouble going out together, we just keep making excuses and never do it. Every once in awhile we go out, probably 2 times a year. No we have never strayed from each other and don't plan to either.