Why do men tend to run when they see a large woman like me?

Answer 1

Because they are ignorant and don't know the joys of loving a BBW.

Answer 2

I struggle too; I'm 5'9 and 249. I wear a size 18 dress. I do try to swim//exercise, and contrary to fat haters i actually eat good food. I also have a thyroid issue. But I dress well and take care of my hair, and nails; wear makeup. But at 48 and overweight men tend to treat me badly regardless of all my education and awards. Just gotta get out there more despite the abuse and ridicule; alot of heavy women do find partners. And remember too, what one man thinks is fat another may think is sexy or pleasantly plump.

Answer 3

The same reasons ladies flee from me. I'm 350. I look around I see there are websites for guys who like BBW, but no sites for ladies who like BBG. I think there are fewer ladies with that particular fetish. In general, there is, perpetuated by Hollywood and fashion magazines, a fat bigotry in this country. It's sad, too, because, more and more people in the country are becoming obese. We'll be a bunch of big self-haters before too long, if we can't get the media to start present more realistic body images.

Answer 4

did you ever stop and think MOST ppl just want someone in shape?? it's hard wired into our brains if you were fat in the olden days you lived shorter periods of time go back even farther you would'nt be able to hunt or fight ..........sad but true MOST men and women don't want fatties

Answer 5

They're not smart enough to see the person inside.

Answer 6

I don't run! they run from me! maybe cause of my looks, tattoos?!-I knew guys who look like "missionaries" but are freaks & deal drugs! (no tattoos, no earrings, clean-cut, etc....)

Answer 7

They are scared of pure sexiness.

Answer 8

We don't want to get squashed or eaten by you.

Answer 9

They are mentally off maybe..

Answer 10

Cause they only have googly eyes for skinny @$$ girls...