my husband and i were seperated last year and we got back together because he cheated and he swore he changed and at first her seemed to really have changed. so we went and had are third child. But now he is acting the same way he did before he came back just this time he isn't cheating. He is jealous of the children, he doesn't want anyone to be happy in the house he just comes home nasty everynight. and i pointed out how he is again and now he is going to counsling. i just don't know if i want him anymore now i been thru to much should i just stay and see if he will change again or move on.
2006-11-14 06:22:54 · 7 answers · asked by christina c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't understand how a man could be jealous of his children. I have three wonderful children, the oldest of which I adopted. When I see my children with their mother I smile from ear to ear and take in as much as I can. I tell you this to justify what I'm about to say. It sounds as though he has some issues other than the children, issues that a counselor is best suited to deal with. Both of you should attend the counseling both to rule out any issues you may have of which you are not aware as well as being in a supportive role for your husband. I do not condone the cheating and praise your courage and selflessness in not divorcing him. Stay the course as long as there is no abuse, either physical or mental to anyone in the home. Church might also be a good place....most people start their marriage there and then stray from the path. Good luck and may God bless you.
2006-11-14 06:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Leigh P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has this relationship been? How long married? Do you truly believe in your heart that he will make an honest effort to change? If not, you need to get started on your new life asap. you are not getting any younger and need to get your life together and on.
2006-11-14 14:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by deputydawg23usa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to go to marriage counceling. It is a problem in your relationship, not just him. If he is jealous of the kids, try to spend a little more time with him.
2006-11-14 14:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take mariage counsilin the 2 of you not jsut him. He's probably really stressed with work
2006-11-14 14:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want him anymore-does this mean you don't love him anymore? If you don't love him anymore, then there is nothing else to be done.
2006-11-14 14:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2006-11-14 14:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by shonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEVORCE HIM!!!!!!
2006-11-14 14:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by i love Amanda kendall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋