My best friend has this boyfriend and he is not only a jerk to her but to me too. Everybody keeps telling her that she deserves better and stuff...she is just too in love with him and nobody knows y??? What can i tell her to make her realize that he is hurting her and her friends???
2006-11-14 06:22:05 · 10 answers · asked by Tanya R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if she can't recognize that she's with a jerk then there is nothing you can do. make sure she knows how you feel (without attacking her) but then let her know that you'll be there to support her if she ever needs anything. she's probably feeling alienated by all of her friends-- just be sure that she knows you'll be there for her if/when she needs you.
2006-11-14 06:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. It is your job as a friend to look out for your other friends. Don't go up to her and say, "He's a jerk, dump him now!" You just need to have a heart- to heart with her. Let her know that you want thte best for her and seeing her in this relationship hurts you. She is probably staying in this relationship because she thinks that she can't do any better. Keep doing what you're doing and just let her know how much you do care. Good luck!
2006-11-14 06:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend that replaced into like that, he might want to act all sweet and valuable after we were on my own, yet even as it got here to his friends he acted mean round me. nicely what befell to him? Kicked him to the decrease. the reason some adult adult males act like it really is because they don't favor to be emasculated and so that they war to hike up their manliness by performing like jerks, besides the undeniable fact that it virtually by no potential works because they finally end up searching like undesirable boyfriends. he's purely at that immature age. yet my words suggestion, a boyfriend could manage you nicely regardless if he's consisting of his friends or not. a real solid bf, does not have the favor to submit a the front.
2016-11-29 03:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by duperne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you have to zip the lip and grin and bear it.
If you open your mouth she will think that you are just Jealous or just trying to break them up. You never ever get in between a relationship your friend is in. I have and it does nothing but causes her to retaliate on you. Just be supportive and in the end she will hopefully see what is happening and move on. If it gets to a point where it is REALLY bad. That is when you open your mouth and do it calmly and not in a accusitory fasion. Just talk to her and tell her you are concerned. But if it is just annoying... wait it out.
2006-11-14 06:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by xxkittenluvxx143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can tell her. It has to get bad enough for her to realize it on her own.
The only thing I could say is to sit her down, look her straight in the eye, and tell her what the deal is. Give her specific examples of when he's treated her AND yourselves badly.
Unfortunately, some women are just attracted to a$$holes.
2006-11-14 06:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you will refuse to be around her anytime that her boyfriend is present. Make the guy be aware of what a jerk he is, and say that it really bothers you.
2006-11-14 06:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself. In the end she will come to you when she finds it out or realizes it on her own. If you try now she will just hold it against you.
2006-11-14 06:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by angelaw86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have another 1 of your friends flirt with him
set him up
2006-11-14 06:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him like he treats you. "The Golden rule"
2006-11-14 06:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by WyoHunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-11-14 06:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by bad girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋