Are any of you in a reltaionship with a passive agressive husband. I have been in a relationship with my husband for 13 1/2 years married 6 yrs, raised my 15 yr son(prev marriage), was supported by him through school (received my bach in 3 yrs) and while I was pregnant with our son in 2004 was recently cheated on. Our son is now 1yr 2 mos. Its so crazy pregnant women get cheated on all the time. I recently learned of his behavior (passive aggressive )and need help dealing with him and my trust issues. would really appreciate some mature advice :)
2006-11-14 05:20:34 · 6 answers · asked by chitchat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree, it's very crazy that so many men cheat when their wives are pregnant. If they didn't want us in that condition, they should have kept a wrapper on it.
Seek counseling. Passive aggressive behavior can be a real problem for some people, and in extreme cases, they turn violent during their "aggressive" phases. You don't ever want things to go that far where he might take out his insecurities on you, your son, or your new baby. In addition, his infidelity isn't something you are going to get over easily. It will take a long time, and a lot of work on his part, to re-build what he so carelessly threw away. A professional can help you both work through these issues, whether it's a clergy member, a psychiatrist, a licensed therapist, or whatever you choose. It doesn't really matter as long as you both are open and honest, the person can help you to find a way to get back what you two are missing.
2006-11-14 05:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am very sorry you were cheated on, I think that in this day and age alot of people don't see infidelity as they once did.
I know the insecurity is bad enough being p.g. your body getting big, etc and the last thing any woman needs is to be cheated on.
But unfortunately it does happen, first of all congradulations on your baby, this is where I can spot a true woman a mile away, and you are considered one, you are asking for help in dealing with trust, alot of women would be bashing and packing but you want to heal inside right? I applaud you and my advice is to talk to him tell him exactly what you feel and how you would like to feel towards him, if what would make you trust him is too much for him then he doesn't care if you trust him or not. I mean lets say you tell him that if he would call once a day while he's at work then you'd feel more better and relevant in your relationship, and he cannot oblige this request then he don't care, or if you were to suggest a few hrs with just you 2 once during the week, and he isn't interested then you know its not
priority to him and then you can decide from there what to do
2006-11-14 05:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by nissdonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in a marriage with a terrible man. Stop making these bad choices. Clearly you suck at picking good men. I mean, no offense but you now have brought 2 children into the world with men that are unworthy.
Raise your kids by yourself and with the help of family and friends and stop dating and marrying people!
2006-11-14 05:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passive aggressive is his excuse for cheating. So, next time it happens, you won't be surprised
2006-11-14 05:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no trust, you need to go. Live your own life for you. And get an honest man. There are plenty of us out here.
2006-11-14 05:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Saints friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
super glue his pen-15 to his belly button..see if he does it again!!!
and thats all i have to say!!! dog....
2006-11-14 05:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by diamondg4u2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋