husband had an affair the woman he cheated with continues to use our last name to be spitefull.
we would like to move on but she has blogs and adult websites with our info and personal info on them.
would luv to get even with her.
2006-11-14 05:18:57 · 15 answers · asked by true 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take her to court for invasion of privacy, defamation of character, and whatever else a good lawyer can think of.
Failing that, challenge/hire a hacker to do a real number on the web sites involved.
2006-11-14 05:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Hums2oldies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to hear that for you and your family. Sounds like she is a real b****. I guess you have forgiven your husband and have taken him back. Not many women would have taken a cheater back. Your marriage must be worth saying or you just don't want to be alone and want to stay together for the child's sake. You must be a Child of God because not many women would take back a man who cheated on them while they were pregnant with his child and then probably still having sex with him while he was having sex with her and she was having sex with whoever. Then he would come back and have unprotected sex with you. Have you been tested for any disease yet? I would thats all apart of trust. You trusted him with your body and he broke that trust by cheating on you. You forgave him and unfortunatly she isn't ready to let him go. Ignoring her would be the best thing but how did she get your personal information? Exactly, what did he tell her? Anyways, I hope everything works out for you and your family.
2006-11-14 13:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops on her. If she's got your personal information posted on her sites without your permission, then it's illegal. The only things allowed on the net are through reputable business, like white pages listings. There is even a bill in Congress right now to make it a federal offense in the US.
2006-11-14 13:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, not only would I post her info (real name, phone number, address and put it on the adult singles sites), but would post her families info too.
Either I'm twisted or everyone else is nice. Lawyers cost YOU money.
2006-11-14 14:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could check with a lawyer about using the name and personal info.
2006-11-14 13:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer!!! Maybe even get two...One for her and one for your husband - Get a divorce. He had the affair and You are paying the price.
2006-11-14 14:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by mothersister_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got a better idea - completely ignore her because it gives her power when she knows she bugs you. Then, divorce your husband - he's the one who cheated and betrayed your trust. I would completely move on from him and end all contact.
2006-11-14 13:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What she's doing is illegal. I would get a lawyer if I were you and ask for advice what can be done for her to stop. Maybe she'll end up in jail or something???? Good luck..
2006-11-14 13:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is ignoring her. She won't continue if it isn't gettig a reaction from you...that is what she is after ya know...your reaction because she tried to steal from you and you got him back...
2006-11-14 13:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give her your cheating husband. That would be getting even.
2006-11-14 13:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋