just wondering how many of you women can stay faithful to a man that you are married to ? I am 25 and have been married since i was 19.I wonder if my wife gets bored with me sexually and wants others......please give your take on this subject?
2006-11-14 05:14:25 · 17 answers · asked by tknallurchps 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been married 6 yrs now. I can honestly say that I will remain faithful to my husband. Why? Because, I have self restraint. Now I'm not going to lie, I may on occasion masturbate to the fantasy of another man. However, my husband is my one and only sexual partner in real life. I also, personally, do not fantasize about other men when we have sex.
Boredom is self-inflicted. If you are willing to be adventurous then the sex should never become dull. (toys, talk, role play) I'm not even going to mention the various kinks/fetishes that are out there, but if you and your wife are willing to experiment then why not.
Trust is paramount in marriage, and it sounds as if you are insecure with yourself. (like you don't trust yourself)
2006-11-14 05:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i got married 2 months before my 19th birthday and have stayed faithful so far (21 now). I might think about my ex and wonder what might have happened but then I wake up and look around and see my beautiful children and my wonderful husband and it all goes away. I would never cheat on my husband or would ever want to. As far as getting bored you just have to think of new things don't think she is bored or she might be. Try to keep the feelings you felt when you first met alive.
2006-11-14 05:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship for 10 years where my bf cheating almost always as though it was a habit. I am married now for 3 years to a wonderful man and no I never get bored and would never cheat on him. Just make sure you communicate with each other always! I told my husband before we married that if he ever felt that he was going to cheat to tell me so that we could divorce and I him. But we both went through the whole cheating spouse so I honestly dont believe that he would cheat on me or I on him. I love my husband with all my heart and I know he loves me with all his heart and we only want each other. Do you feel that your wife could possibly cheat on you? Why? Talk to her before it is too late.
2006-11-14 05:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by jrolao77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am on my second marraige I have never cheated on either one. Including my first who was abusive. But I can say that I am 29 and married to my second husband who is 38. We have been married for almost 4 years and dated 3 prior to getting married. If there is one thing we believe in, that would be to always keep you sex life interesting. Try new things. No you don't have to make it seem trashy, but try something new. Like give her a body massage with warming oil. You could also look up Passion Parties on the net and see if someone in your area sales the stuff. If so contact them and see what you could do about taking a look at what they have to offer. We love their stuff and it keeps things interesting.
2006-11-14 05:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by jb29 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 27 and have been married to my husband since I was 19. He is the only man I have ever been with and the only one I want to be with. I've been bored but I have never even considered being unfaithful.
2006-11-14 05:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by OrianasMom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me personally have high morals and believe cheating is wrong. I don't care if I am with someone for 1 month or 100 years, if I ever decided I wanted someone else I would tell them, not cheat on them. I am planning my wedding right now and there is no way I could ever imagine cheating on him. When I get married it will be for life(or that is what I hope). I would not mess with the sanctity of my vows for that. Good luck in your marriage and don't worry about it or worry her about it, otherwise she will get worried that you would get bored of her. Just enjoy her and don't let that sort of stuff get in the way. Have a good day!!
2006-11-14 07:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can stand before my God and say that I was faithful to my ex huband for 37-1/2 years. I loved him and had respect for myself . I was never with another man but him. Sorry, to say that was not true on his part. He had many affairs and the last one that broke up the marriage was with my younger sister (18 years younger) He could not even get it up with out the little blue pill. But my vows meant something to me. If you know your wife you will know the answer. Our vows say till death do you part I took my vows . But he did not . So , ask your wife how she feels. I had the opportunity to cheat, but did not because I thought more of myself and my family. Ask her I hope you get the answer you want.
2006-11-14 05:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been unfaithful to anyone I have been with....I have been with my husband for 5 years and have never even thought of anyone else......If you are with someone be with THEM....My husband is the best man in the world, and he treats me so good. He takes care of his family, and would never hurt me like that.....so why would I do that to him??? Sex is not everything you know........as long as there is open communication, trust, love, and laughter then there shouldn't be any problems......
2006-11-14 05:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy of 2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have been honestly and faithfull for 9 years to him but this son of b i t c h had cheated on me so i do not believe in that any more .
2006-11-14 05:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 9 years together with my husband almost 11 years, and I have NEVER been unfaithful to him. I value my marriage and respect my husband to do anything that stupid to jeopardize what we have.
2006-11-14 05:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋