Me and my ex were together for six years and we borke up on Febuary 26th 2006 and it was because of some kidding things said that was foolish of both of us to believe because it wasn't true we let haters come between the love that we had and since then I haven't heard from him until today he called and said he was sorry and that he felt stupid for what he did and he hope we can get back together but now I'm just starting a new relationship with someone new but I'm still deeply in love with him and don't know what to do please help thanx.
2006-11-14 05:04:51 · 14 answers · asked by Nikki2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give your relationship a second chance. 6 years is a long time & you apparently know each other very well. Go for it!
A new relationship will always be more exciting but think long term. I think your Ex deserves a chance
2006-11-14 05:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mock-mast 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex waited nearly NINE months to call you up and apologize..over stuff you said was foolish. That seems like a long time to hold a grudge!
Only you know whether your ex is really "worth" a second chance. But I find it ironic, to say the least, that he happens to call you just as you're starting a new relationship. Is it possible that he heard about the new guy?
Of course, you're going to have deep feelings for a six-year relationship. Maybe you should slow down or back off a bit before starting this new relationship until you've sorted out how you feel about your ex. You want to go free and clear into a new relationship; it's the fair (and honest) thing to do for yourself but especially for the other.
Good luck!
2006-11-14 13:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he sure took his sweet *** time to realize what he had. He made you wait for 9 months so now he gets to wait. You have already made another commitment to someone new and you should stick with it. If you don't you might always wonder what could have been. Your ex can either choose to move on or wait. If he loved you he never would have let some bullshit get in the way of your relationship in the first place and it sure as hell wouldn't have taken him this long to figure out he had made a mistake. He is pulling a control tactic whether he knows it or not and if you run back to him now he will know he can have you back whenever he wants.
2006-11-14 13:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your options open. Don't give up the new relationship if you have doubts about rekindling the old one. It sounds a little strange that your ex would just drop on you out of the blue that he suddenly wants you back. He may be on the rebound from a broken affair or just lonely for some reason, neither of which is a good foundation for a take two on romance. I think you should take it slow, as friends, and give the new relationship a chance before you throw it away.
2006-11-14 13:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Charlevoix Blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go after your ex. If you still have strong feelings for him it's probably not going to work with this new guy. And when you do get back with your ex you both should sit down and talk about your mistakes and make sure that no one will be able to split you two up. Your relationship should be strong enough to get through any thing, no matter what is said
2006-11-14 14:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you guys let haters come in between your guys love then maybe it wasn't meant to be. Usually it is unconditional love when people can fight those sort of things, and that wasn't.....i say stick with the one you've got, you will learn in your own way to get over this other guy and be happy with the one you are with now. it will take time, but i promise it will be alright!
good luck girl!
2006-11-14 13:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by vgplamondon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take more time to think about this. but to be fair to the new guy you're dating , you got to let him know about your feelings. Just follow your heart.
2006-11-14 13:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by claria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let something stupid and childish come inbetween you and your man then that relationship wasnt that good anyway.
2006-11-14 13:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by Saint 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go after him if you still have strong feelings for him. If not, let it move on and find another person.
2006-11-14 13:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey, tell the new one that you were on the rebound and you're sorry, but it's not going to work, because your heart belongs to the other one,
and take the other one back! quick!
a guy genuinely apologizing? jump on it!
2006-11-14 13:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋