2006-11-14 04:59:53 · 7 answers · asked by latinarose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unconditional love is the answer to that. The people that we love the most realize that love exists and so unknowing somethings say or do things that are hurtful as they are more comfortable doing it with loved ones because of this unconditional love and knowing that all will be forgiven soon.
2006-11-14 05:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because most easily forgive when that word is thrown around loosly. It is different from family hurting you and someone else, but can feel the same. You cant necessarily get rid of a family member, but anyone else is able to be left alone.
THey do it because tey feel they can- bottom line. And if you let it happen more than once, they use it as an excuse to do it all the time.
Only when you stand up for yourself will it quit
2006-11-14 05:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their is a old song that says, "You always hurt the one you love".
I think sometimes you can love someone to much and intend to smother them. I have often wondered that myself but I've never been able to figure that one out either. I just sometimes think if they really love you, because they know their hurting you. One always loves more than the other, it always has been that way and I guess always will be.
2006-11-14 05:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
:)... because love indicates putting aside your typical selfishness and putting ur trust into someone's possession... u are literally allowing them to handle your heart, u are vulnerable... and if that person is bad, or selfish, or doesn't deserve it, u can become screwed!
that is why, in order to give love to someone, u should make sure they are Worth it..... make sure that they are going to appreciate, love, respect, and honor you, just as you do them. then, and only then, should u consider marriage, or sex, or what have u..... because if u get into a relationship and give ur love freely without expecting anything back, most likely u will get nothing back. that is why marriage should be when u can give and receive love freely, without fear of rejection or hurt, because u take the committment and vows to Love, Respect, Honor and Take care of each other..! :) good luck to us all~
2006-11-14 05:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because that person knows you so well and therefore knows the exact place/feelings/words that can hurt you.And besides he/she is the only person who you allow to hurt you as you love him /her also so much.
2006-11-14 05:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by dawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because this is what we call love, in love you will have to face all these things. Bur remeber every action has an equal or oppsite reaction, choose your wisely.
2006-11-14 05:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they know you so well that they know just where to get you when the are upset with you.
2006-11-14 05:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋