2006-11-14 04:53:26 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
unles there is some MAJOR way that he can beg for your forgiveness and make it up to you and promise never to do it again, then you shoul get the heck out of that marriage before you get an STI from him, and even more heartache. You deserve better!
2006-11-14 04:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by the_only_slushman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust can be rebuilt. In order for this to start to take place he has to stop. He has to realize the damage he's done, and work extra hard at rebuilding the trust. When he's made the choice to stop. You make the Choice to trust him again. This means considering him innocent until he proves you otherwise. Talk about the pain it's caused you, but then let it go. I know that sounds hard, but if you keep bring it up it won't help. Get some councelling, deal with the hurt and then choose to trust him and move on. If he's not willing to stop, and work on building the trust... there's not a lot you can do.
2006-11-14 04:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This I am sorry, is a stupid question. You can't learn to trust someone who doesn't earn the trust. If your husband cheats on you all the time.. GET OUT!! He will ALWAYS cheat on you and you will never be able to trust him.
2006-11-14 04:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater.
You cannot trust someone because in the back of your head you will always be wondering what he is doing and if he is messing around and that is no way to live your life in a marriage. The main thing to have is trust and he has already violated that.
Plain and ismple you don't $hit in your own backyard and it seems he already has.
I'd leave the bastard, he had a good thing and he messed it up. You can replace him with another man quick, fast, and in a hurry, but do you really want to?? You DON'T need him!!!
2006-11-14 04:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.BusyBody 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you can trust a man that cheats on you "all the time". You can trust him to cheat on you and that is about all. You need to leave this situation or you'll too damaged to move on to a new and better relationship.
2006-11-14 05:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I mean, are you cool with that? Does he lie about cheating on you? If so, then you can't. There isn't any consistancy there and you would have no way of knowing what's true and what isn't. And you can't really trust anyone like that.
Unless you guys are open about him cheating on you and you're ok with that, then you aren't going to be able to trust him.
2006-11-14 04:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by J Bents 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if he cheats all the time than most likely he's going to keep doing it over and over again and you should just leave him. There's just no way you can trust him no matter what he tells you
2006-11-14 05:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by *~Pretty Smile~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't learn to trust him again. Your trust has been breached numerous times. You either get out of that marriage or stay and suffer the consequences.
2006-11-14 04:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would learn to trust him as my Ex-husband.
2006-11-14 05:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question is how do you trust a man who cheats on you all the time?....YOU DO NOT! Trust yourself and get away before he brings you a disease.
2006-11-14 04:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋