2006-11-14 04:02:22 · 15 answers · asked by Daniel Hillhouse`s Girl! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I guess you'd have to ask both of the other people. Some guys would say heck yeah, and some other girls might just want you for themselves. Because if they are a lesbian, they're probably a man hater. Who knows? It's different for everyone. Do not keep it a secret though, and try to play both sides. You will end up alone.
2006-11-14 04:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "date"?
If it's just casual or a relationship that isn't intended to go anywhere, then as long as noone's being lied to there's no problem.
If it's a serious relationship though it can cause a lot of problems. The girl and whoever she's seeing would have to think hard about their needs in the relationship and whether they would be happy without monogamy.
If you are looking for an actual opinion I can't imagine being with more than one person if I was even vaguely serious about one of them. I'm pretty against this idea that being bi means you need to be with both men and women. I think it just means you fall for one person who can be either male or female. But ultimately it's up to whoever is involved to know what's right for them.
2006-11-14 04:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by rotund_coffee_pot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if everyone involved knows the situation beforehand and agrees to it. Otherwise, it's nothing better than cheating in my eyes, and it doesn't matter if she's bi or not.
Some people have great experiences with polyamory, but most people find it difficult to juggle more than one partner. Take care and be careful. There's a reason why monogamy (or cheating and lying) are the main forms of relationships out there.
2006-11-14 04:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look man its ok for u like both man and women but I dont really think its ok for someone who is bi to go out with two people at the same time but then again thats what i think cuz maybe all three of u like luv eachother then i guess it would be ok it really depends on u and ur partners u should ask them what they feel about it
2006-11-14 04:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by emostwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would make for very interesting bed-fellows. Now let me ask the opposite: Is it ok for a guy to date a girl and a guy if he is bi?
2006-11-14 04:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by gleemonex69 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok... for a start you'll notice it's mostly men who have said this is ok.... it's not really!
For a start noone wants to share their bf/gf... they want them for themselves.... It's unfair to both parties to two time... regardless of their gender!
Whether Bi or not you're bound to have a preference between these two.. and chose that one person... dont keep your options open like that until your single!
Settle for one of them... don't be greedy!
Hope you chose the right ONE!!!
Good Luck!
2006-11-14 04:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by greenbloomers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it ok for WHO? Who are you including in this question? Your father? Your mother? The guy? The girl, or God? You need to get your head screwed on straight and grow up. A little maturity will greatly help you get your life on the right trail. Good luck. Pops
2006-11-14 04:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes as long as everyone is okay with it and they know what is going on. Sounds kind of fun
2006-11-14 04:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey i am partial to this wuestion most peoplke would say no because you could hurt both people...blah..blah ,,blah but i say its ok wothout either one nowing because i am with a man and i cant leave him because he would kill hisself but i want a woman so bad i can taste it and he would not understand so go for what u feel my love
2006-11-14 04:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say YES! Just make sure they both get along...and make sure u dont pay attention to one more than the other...causes jealousy!
2006-11-14 04:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋