How would i know that my boyfriend is really sincere with me?
We'd sex as well...
But still confused about him...!
I need help!!!!
How can i judge him? How can i know that he loves me?
2006-11-14 04:00:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Beware!!! Just because you have sex with a guy all the time doesn't in any way make him really and truely sincere with you.
2006-11-14 04:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never ever know if someone 'really loves' you. You either trust that they tell you the truth or you don't. 'I love you' is a relatively easy thing to say but actions do speak a lot louder than words when it comes to love, in my opinion. Does he sound pleased to hear from you when you call? Does he ever later his plans to fit into yours a bit? Does he show you respect, all the time, not just when you are alone?
But I am a little distrubed that you are having sex with someone that you are not sure loves and respects you. Sex is not love and vice versa. Just keep it safe.
2006-11-14 04:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he tell you how he feels about you?
Does he hold your hand while walking down the road?
Does he kiss you on the cheek?
Does he just sometimes look at you for no reason?
If you answer with a yes to the above I would think yes he loves you, or cares VERY deeply about you.
I am kinda going through the same thing, wondering if my b/f is in love, etc...
He does all the above with me, and I know he doesn’t just want me for sex.
If you feel he only wants to sleep with you whenever you guys meet up, then it might be a bad sign!
Good luck
2006-11-14 04:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are signs my girlfriend always knows it is the tone of my voice when i am speaking to her the eye contact the facial expressions bringing her gifts lots of things it is a combination of what he says how he says it when he says it honesty trusthworthiness loyalty open expressions of love the sex means almost nothing now adays People often give it away cheaply and consequently it goes unappriciated and meaningless
2006-11-14 04:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by The SQuire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he respects you, and tries to keep you happy..if you've been with him for a while..if he doesn't lie to you..if he doesn't make you cry..then he loves you :D
and the person above me is right, just because he has sex with you doesn't mean he loves you. Just be careful...it sucks bad getting your feelings hurt.
2006-11-14 04:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the bollocks and ask him
2006-11-14 04:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋