My chilldren call what their dad is doing just friendship. I believe it is an affair. He is having lunch every day with this woman. I found them parked behind the local grocery store after he said he was going to the dump to take out the trash. She comes over to our swimming pool when I am not home. Never stays till I get home. He does more work around her house than my own. He called her from Florida when he was on vacation and talked to her 1 hour and yet only spoke to the children for 5 minutes each night he was gone. What do you think.
2006-11-14 03:57:08 · 10 answers · asked by springer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you have the answer already, that he is having an affair with this woman. And not only is he having an affair but he is trying not to hide it at all and justify it by saying he is comforting and/or helping her. What a crock of BS, it's that type of stuff that gives us other guys a bad reputation.
2006-11-14 04:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to your own question. Here's the thing... you don't trust him do you? When that bond of trust is broken, the relationship is damaged. He obviously is having an affair when the "sneakiness" comes in. Why lie to you about taking out the trash? Why "hide" her in the pool only to have her leave before you get home. If it is "just" a friendship, then SHE doesn't respect HIM and his family... and he needs better friends. Your kids aren't sleeping with your husband...you are... and you have the right to call it like YOU see it.
2006-11-14 04:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is having an emotional affair. I've had one of those before and it is just as bad if not worse than sex because feelings are involved more directly. Why is he not doing these things with you? If he is sharing this intimate relationship with this woman, maybe you guys need to have a discussion about your own relationship. Also, you should think about what he is doing in reference to you and your children. It seems like he is being highly disrespectful to you. Is this something that you are willing to accept? And who knows if he is doing anything more with this woman? If they are young children, then maybe they don't really see what is going on. But I know that you are not stupid and you really know the answer to your question. Don't be disrespected anymore. He should not be spending more time with this woman than with your children.
2006-11-14 04:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU are the adult in this situation, not your children. You are not a dumb person- you know what he is doing is cheating. If it wasn't, this other woman would hang around when you were at home. My boyfriend cheated on me for an entire year- and I saw all of the signs that you have described- he would hang around at her house a lot, would talk to her on the phone. I kept denying it. The fact that your husband lied and said he was going to take out the trash and then scampered away behind a grocery store to see her sends up all kinds of red flags. Set up video cameras in your house- get evidence of him cheating- then take the videos to a lawyer and get a divorce.
2006-11-14 04:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 02:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kids think it's a friendship because that is what your husband is telling them and that's what they want to believe. What child wants to think that dad is leaving mom for another woman? Some day when they're older they may look back and realize what's really going on, but they just don't see it now.
2006-11-14 04:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely an affair! That's not how you act with your friends, is it? How do you know they have not had sex, don't listen to your kids, wonder what they would call it if it happened to them and their spouse. IT IS AN AFFAIR!
2006-11-14 04:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. Thats an affair.
2006-11-14 04:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an affair.
2006-11-14 04:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the kids have blinders on.
2006-11-14 03:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋