Ok... My parents want me to move away with them but I dont want to, I have moved so many times before and its hard fitting in. I kinda fit in here and if I stay I will be living with my older brother. I have a few friends here but we only meet up at parties. In my old town I could go to my friends houses whenever I wanted unannouced. But here you have to get an invitation. I have lived here a year and nobody has ever came over. One of my friends said he would come over if my parents were not there.
2006-11-14 03:49:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It may seem a great idea to stay with ur brother, no parents, be your own boss but believe me, you will soon wish you had gone with your parents when the novelty wears off. And this "friend" is only willing to come and see you because your parents aren't there proves he's not a real friend or he would have been to your home many times, and you to his. Which leaves your brother, just you and him, what if you fall out, and remmber your brother has his own life, he will not be able to provide the parental support and dedication that maybe you are used to. You don't realise how much you need your parents, or how much they mean to you until you are seperated from them. I would go with them if I were you as you have the rest of your life to live independently, as an adult, but I will tell you now that it's well overrated and you will treasure the time you were with your parents. I still pine for home and my parents and I'm 30 and lived out of home a long time now, though I see them/talk to them daily it isn't the same. Make the most of the years with your family because all too soon you will be fending for yourself. When you are older you will understand why I'm saying all this, and you will also have some real friends who know you and will be be there 4U when you need them. Enjoy your youth, you only get to live it once.
2006-11-14 04:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you're not too happy where you are now. The "party only" friends aren't real friends, a real friend should be one all the time.
Have you thought about your older brother, is he willing to pay for you? He most probably has his own responsabilities.
I think you would be better off moving with your parerents to the new location; there you might find real friends.
How about going with your parents and if you prefer the old location, go back to your brother
2006-11-14 04:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Internet addict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move and try a new town You say you're kind of find there?Friends wanting to come over, only when parents are gone?Sounds kind of sneaky.It doesn't sound like your fitting into that town well at all.
2006-11-14 04:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by star_utsf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion: i think you should leave with your parents. i mean i would really understand you because i was the same way with my mom. we moved around 6 time in only 4 years straight. But its kind of cool you get to meet alot of people and you get to know or learn new things you didn't even think excisted. It's also hard because of your friends not coming over and sometimes you just feel like talking to someone and no one is there to keep you company.
2006-11-14 04:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by erika g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. Where does your older brother live? if it's there then that sounds pretty lame and I wouldn't want to live there. but if he lives in the town where you used to live and had lots of friends then go for it!
Just think really hard tho before making your decision, will you miss your parents?
2006-11-14 03:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 OK how old r u? precisely
2 sorry for this but r u stupid boy? you don't have real friends there move and you will see it'll be better
3 i know its not nice to move so much but sometimes its for the best. OK!
2006-11-14 03:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would move with your parents if i was you because you might make better friends there then you were making at where you are now. i think you will miss your parents too much if you stay with your brother and you would prolly have more money if you live with your parents.
2006-11-14 04:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under 18 stay with your parents. You never know what the next adventure will bring. To me, it doesn't sound like you have strong bonds with anyone at your present location.
2006-11-14 03:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go where you feel comfortable. It sounds like you aren't happy where you are, even though you are trying to make the best of things. Talk to your parents, and see what they have to say. They love you, and want what's best for you.
2006-11-14 04:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by curiogirl84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this really depends on you, if you want to move then move...if you have a gut feeling not to then stay....this is not something that anyone else can decide for you.....sit down make a list of the pros if you stay and the cons if you stay. vice versa as opposed on going.
2006-11-14 03:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋