for some reason every boy i like i can never be with, and sometimes if i find out a boy has a girlfriend i like him more, and just recently i started liking a boy and i thought i could actually be with him, but it turns out he has a girlfriend, so did i like subconsciously know that he had a girlfriend? and why do i always wanna be with boys that i cant be with????
2006-11-14 03:42:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ever heard that saying the things you want most you can't have. Well you are in just that phase right now. It is just subconsious thinking that all the boys you like are taken. Believe it or not girls are attracted to guys when they are with someone rather than when they are single. It is almost like that forbidden fruit you aren't suppose to have
2006-11-14 03:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, do not feel like you have a character flaw. I honestly think it is part of our human nature at times to want that which we "can't have".
When I was a teen, I often suffered with the same thing with the girls I "set my heart on". Especially in the area of ones that would have been considered "out of my league".
As far as the ones that have girlfriends already...just because they are taken, that doesn't necessarily mean that you are missing out on a great catch. Be careful not to overlook a great treasure, but wanting to latch on to one that is already discovered.
2006-11-14 11:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by Randal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember having this problem not long ago. I think it's a need to compete and also wanting something that is not available. Because if said boy became single, do you think you might lose interest? If so, then this comes from your need to want to "win" or be accepted. Which is completely normal and you will move on and grow out of it.
2006-11-14 11:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by RenDanielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has a certain amount of carvings for the things that they can't have. It is like a cheap thrill to go after a guy that is "forbidden." To me as long as they aren't married and don't have kids by the girl they are free to pursue. Hey, you might be able to make him happier!!!
2006-11-14 11:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by mama4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably doesn't mean that you look for guys with girlfriends. You simply like those boys. It's not your fault that they boys have girlfriends.
2006-11-14 12:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by Alexei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your never going to be sadisfied thats part of life and being a girl no guys ever going to meet your standards and some guys are going to be too good life goes on dont let one bump in the road slow you down k
2006-11-14 11:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any one cant stop u from lovin somebody.u hav to decide the about the situation.i knw it coz i had to go throuh that too.u'll think u got many probs.bt dear let it b.u r the only person that the things can change.im also js helpin u.
f u w mre hlp.mail me.
thx.
2006-11-14 11:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Madushan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel sorda, I cant be with any boy right now so I just tell myself since I cant it wasnt meant to be and someone better is going to be there for me someday.
2006-11-14 11:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by StarWarsFanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u like the challenge that comes with process of chasing an alraedy taken guy....or maybe ur a big whore =0...jk... i have the same problem..now i just let the boys come to me!
2006-11-14 11:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by K.A.R.A =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about that.. im in high school and i see guys i wanna be with too... but all the good ones are already taken..
your could just wait for them to come around
or
find yourself a different guy...!
2006-11-14 11:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by stephy09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋