..so some serious answers please...what ways can I keep myself calm before walking in the building so I can be as natural and myself as possible?
2006-11-14 03:34:06 · 11 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We are just meeting as friends.
I would say we are both attractive.
2006-11-14 03:51:50 · update #1
Take a deep breath,and think of some happy childhood memory.Good luck:)
2006-11-14 03:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the purpose of the meeting...
is it a romantic interest?
meeting a long lost relative?
a job interview?
Also, where are you meeting? You mention a building... an apartment building? An office building?
I strongly discourage you from meeting someone for the first time in an apartment, unless of course you are both in agreement, and there is an understanding.
The best way of being calm is to lay out the boundaries and the purpose of the meeting. Be very clear, honest, open and direct.
2006-11-14 11:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just pretend that you are going in to meet friends. Make sure you stay in a well lit place that is very public and good luck
2006-11-14 11:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Control yourself. I have that problem. Have self-confidence and just think that everything will be okay and you are perfectly fine. Dance as if no one is watching. Act as if no one is noticing. Just be yourself.
2006-11-14 11:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a very deep breath, let it out slowly, and tell yourself that you are a Diva.
2006-11-14 11:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and relax...im sure you'll be fine...think of something funny in your head maybe...depends what will relax you.
good luck :)
2006-11-14 18:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Peter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just relax and have a good time, are you attractive? he prolly feels the same way as you, nervous
2006-11-14 11:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Grant C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself that this person is lucky to be meeting YOU...
2006-11-14 11:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relax and just be yourself everything else will fall in place.
2006-11-14 17:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just dont give a sshit. the second you start to give a shhit is when your brain starts to work harder with thoughts and feelings. just dont...............
2006-11-14 11:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by delmore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋