How do i forget his death?

Question

My grand father passed away 9 days ago. I'm still very sad, But i never could cry.
after the funeral, every night i've terrible nightmares about him and the tomb and stuff.
I feel really depressed.
i'd appreciate any suggestion. How do i can forget him?
p.s. sorry for my english

Answer 1

oh my dear, i am so sorry for your lose.
i know the pain of losing someone that meant the world to you.
i have lose my dad, i really miss him, i was the only girl of a big family. i loved being daddy's girl.
i have lose my grandpa, we was my hero,
i just recently lots my husband. the man of all my hopes and dreams.
pray to the lord and ask him to give you the strength, and believe in him. and he will should you. my hole world crash in a short time in my life, GOD!! I'm so sorry for you. i wish i could give you a hug. but sweetie believe it or not it does get easier as time goes on. but you have all those memory's, it won't be long and before you know it you will be talking about him and laughing of all the things that happened. grandpa wouldn't want you to be sad.

Answer 2

Sweetie, Im so sorry for your loss. I have also lost my grandfather, fairly recently. The thing is, you will never forget. Right now when you are feeling sad or depressed try to think of the good times you remember and the rest of your family you have left that love you very much. It will take time but it does get better.

Answer 3

You will never be able to forget him or his death but things will get better. You will begin to remember more and more of the things you loved about him and less and less about how it made you feel when he died. Every time you start to feel sad, try real hard to remember something the two of you did that you enjoyed. Mabye make a list of all the reasons that you loved him and think about what you can do to be more like him.

Answer 4

i dont know if there is away to get over it (my grandma died 5 years ago and i m still not over it) but one thing i can say is:
Dont try to forget him, if u really loved him then remember all the good times u had and be happy that u got to know him. If u try to forget and then something remindes u of him it will all come back and i dont know about u but i cant handle it, i just start crying again and again. I tried to forget and i am ashamed of it, trying to forget someone who meant so much to me just so i would feel better-ironically makes me fell even worse. people always say u should think of all the good times u had but it didnt make me feel any better, i just missed her even more when i thought of her. but i remember that she loved to see me smile and made her happy so even if i dont feel to well i smile anyway and hope where ever she is now she will smile back at me. (oh god its been 5 years and even writing this makes me cry) i am so sorry u have to go through this. i hope u will be able to handle it better then me. good luck

Answer 5

Honey, I am so sorry for your loss. You will never forget your grandfather and you shouldn't, but it will get easier with time. I hope he lived a long and happy life. You need to grieve, cry, let it out and cry some more. I believe you will see him again one day. I will pray that you find comfort and peace in your time of need.

Answer 6

forgetting is not healthy. you never forget those dear to you. you just have to come to terms with him being gone.

death is a part of life. we all come and go; this is the way of the world. just realize that your pain will turn into fond rememberance, and it's all part of the healing process.

dont obsess over or focus on pain. you have to let go.

Answer 7

You don't want to forget him. Time will heal.