what can I do to make myself feel sexy?

Question

I have never felt sexy and would like to know what I can do to make myself feel that way, any suggestions? Genuine question

Answer 1

Shop at Victoria's Secret .. that works for me

Answer 2

Put a Saturday aside and have a home spa.
Put some relxing music on, light some aromatic candles in the bathroom and either bath or shower. Do all the usual stuff, you know shave, exfoliate body, face and feet, shampoo, maybe a hot conditioning treatment and of course a face mask. If your daring enough buy a few sachets of 'MUDD body mud' from Superdrug/Boots (99p) and cover yourself to help get rid of skin toxins.
After your bath/shower, rub down with either a body bruch (£4.99 Superdrug) or loofah to get the blood circulating and moisturise with something that smells fantastic.
Dry off and have lunch and maybe a nice Smothie/Juice and sit relaxing for an hour or so (remember get the heating cranked up so you can sit in your dressing gown!)
Afterwards do a manicure/pedicure and put on your favourite shade of nail polish.
Now maybe the time to treat yourself to a glass of Wine or refreshing juice and get yourself sat somewhere comfy with a mirror and pluck your eyebrows. Then put some make up on (maybe a little different colours than normal or if youve treat yourself to some new bits) Take your time and maybe use eyeliner to create sexy eyes, (copy from a magazine if unsure).
Next get your hair dried and styled as youd like it, maybe trying something different.
Now, the most important bit.......new underwear! No matter what style you prefer, new underwear makes you feel so much better and lastly n outfit you feel nice but relaxed in.
Go out let your hair down or stay in....with the knowledge your relaxed, pruned and feeling great!

The main thing to been sexy is Smile and Be Confident! They are the 2 things that make anyone sexy, even if you were wearing a binbag youd look sexy if your confident and smiling.

Hope this helps, a home pamper session always makes me feel sexier and more relaxed....most of all it makes me happy so hope you have a go too.

Answer 3

Trying too hard to be sexy often defeats the point of the excercise. Just be yourself and that's enough. Don't feel pressured into feeing that you have to be it either. If you really must, you could try talking a bit slower, quieter and deeper and finding a nice perfume you like the smell of. experiment with hairstyles and poses in the mirror (the more natural the better, there's nothing more obvious than someone trying too hard!). Check your posture, and ensure you don't slouch. Find some pretty, feminine clothes, or if that's not your style try using pretty accessories. You should remember though, other people will like you for you and not some 'pretend' version of yourself that you want them to believe is you. Sorry if you are older and I sound condecending, but I'm assuming you are teen or younger. Whatever age, just believe in yourself and don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Most of all just have fun experimenting with ideas and styles until you find something

Answer 4

is this about you feeling sexy? or being sexy for other people? because if it is for other people then obviously u dress yr self up smart, but if its for yrself then it can be a bit deeper, in this world it doesn't matter whether yr fat, thin, black, white, blond, brown etc etc I'm a firm believer that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so to many people you probably r sexy but to yr self u may think thr is room for improvement, if you feel this then pin point what u would like to change, don't do anything drastic, just calm changes mite make u feel better and will start building up yr confidence, and if this doesn't work go out enjoy yr self give yr self sumet to do that will take yr mind off bein sexy and u Will eventually realise that it doesn't matter how u look, but its about makin the most of what u have got...

Answer 5

Try a new hairstyle. Sometimes a simple thing like that can make you feel good about yourself. Also, start thinking sexy thoughts and you will start feeling more sexy. Try doing something that you've never done before.

Answer 6

Are you happy with the way you look and present yourself? For me, knowing that I look as good as I can makes me feel confident and this in turn makes me feel sexy and so, apparently do the opposite sex! Feeling sexy comes from within. Try making yourself feel good about you, that in turn will give off good vibes to others, and you will get positive feedback - THEN you will feel sexy, knowing that others find you attractive

Answer 7

be bold and confident

the first step towards being sexy is 'feeling sexy' in your head.

invest in some large mirrors and place them in your living room / lounge / bedroom so you can look at yourself every now and again

always keep legs, hands underarms hair free ! trust me you will feel the sexiness of your own body

wear heels ! if you dont have practice then wear heels inside the house so you can get practice. be careful if you have stairs though

get a new haircut - ask the dresser what she / he thinks will suit your face - maybe colour it, get highlights.

being and feeling sexy is all about taking care of your body, your hair and looking your best ALL THE TIME. walking with pride and confidence adds to your sexiness

good luck !

Answer 8

I always feel sexy when I have a nice hot fragrant bath, do my nails, get myself dressed up in some new clothes and do my hair and make up. However, why is it when you pop down the road in your pj's with your hair everywhere, you get asked out by some bloke? There's some strange people out there!

Answer 9

Think sexy! When you dress up to go out THINK sexy, walk sexy and you become sexy!

In addition, always make the best of yourself, hair, nails, clothes etc.

None of us are perfect but have to try and love ourselves for being who we are!

Answer 10

try doing something different with your hair maybe a little make up but not to much.it all depends on how sexy you wanna be and who you are being sexy for if its for yourself just change little things like your clothes,purfume etc if its for a guy sexy underwear always works.

Answer 11

start off with a nice shower wash hair. put some sexy underwear on, perfume, high heels, a mac, lip gloss and wella your a sexy temptress if your in a relationship give your man a shock wow!