I spoke with my x-gal after a two month of not talking because we had an arguement. She told me what I did wrong and why she broke it off. She still thinks about me but she does not want to be friends. Is she telling me to get lost or is she punishing me for screwing up?
2006-11-14 02:59:38 · 25 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Uh, if its been 2 months since you have had contact with her, then its fair to say she is telling you to get lost. Move on, she has made her decision. A punishment wouldn't last 2 months.
2006-11-14 03:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for her to tell you to get lost just do it. If she can go 2 months without talking to you because a arguement then she don't really care anyway. You need to ask yourself who started the argument because if she did, she may have just been looking for a way out and then she felt guilty about it. It sounds to me that she isn't even sure of what she wants but she don't want to be the one to pursue it she wants you to come after her. Other wise if she didn't want to be your friend or talk to you then she didn't have to call you in the first place with an explaination. So maybe she realized what a mistake she made and wants you back, but does not want to be the one to make the first move so she opened the door for you,.
2006-11-14 03:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by RENA J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a bit of both. It must be hard for her to forgive & forget what you did, so that's why she doesn't want to be friends. But she could be punishing you, cause you and her not being friends not only affects her, it affects you too, and obviously it saddens you not being friends with her. Give her some time, and maybe try and talk to her. Put the ball in her court and see where it takes the relationship. At that point, you can say that you have done all that you can do. Good luck
2006-11-14 03:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 06:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you argued about and what was said. But whatever it was you obviously hurt her feelings very badly and this is why she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore. The only thing you can do is apologise and if you want to be friends with her again then tell her that you do and that you hope that in the future you can be friends again. But right now as she doesn't want to see you I wouldn't push the issue as you could make things worse
2006-11-14 03:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have hurt her really bad, a lot worse than you think. it sounds like she still loves you but doesn't trust you. if you want to get back with her, talk to her honestly and try to understand the argument and why she feels the way she does from her point of view. it might not have been a big deal to you but it was to her. i don't know if she's punishing you more so than she's just wary of getting back together with you so she's keeping her distance.
2006-11-14 03:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she really is breaking it off with you. She doesnt even want to be friends which means that she wants absolutely no contact with you, whether its because she really loves you and she needs to get over you, or you screwed up so bad that she just totally hates your guts. Good luck!
2006-11-14 03:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by ambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she doesn't want to be friends anymore, at least not right now. I don't know what you did, but there's a chance that she will forgive you in time. But I wouldn't push it, especially if you were in the wrong. Give her some time and see what happens.
2006-11-14 03:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a little of both. I'm not sure of the whole situation but take this as a lesson learned and hopefully you wont make similar errors in your next relationship. Move on because she's not looking back...
2006-11-14 03:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by asturiasangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did somehting really bad like cheated on her don't expect her to forgive you and move on. It sounds like she has feelings for you but that you hurt her pretty bad. If you truly love her you either need to find a way to build her trust back in you and be good to her or leave her alone.
2006-11-14 03:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋