HOw come I cry sometimes for not having a boyfriend or for not being proud how God made me? I have nice parents and they care about me alot but I think I am not pretty enough.
2006-11-14 02:56:39 · 10 answers · asked by April Ann Codon Cruz 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Get some counseling. having a boyfriend is not the main goal in life. Find something within your self to be proud of, everyone has something wonderful about them. God doesn't create junk! God bless
2006-11-14 03:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel. i felt like that a not long ago. i told someone i really liked him and he said "sorry i already had a girlfriend and thinking about it i really want to be with her". sounds nice doesn´t it but he sent it via text message (couldnt he just tell me) and reading between the lines it sounds very much like "i just dont like YOU". I didnt know what to think of it and tried to forget it btu a few days later it just all came back and i started to cry. I kept asking myself, ,why does it hurt although nothing changed? (was the first time i ever told someone i liked them, by the way.). i never had a boyfriend before and fell just the same as u do. But u just have to think that someday someone will come along who will make u feel good, someone who likes u the way u r. im sure u will find him. Someone once told me "there is always a reason to smilie and never one good enough not to" and i think he was right so just keep smiliing, there are so many things that r worse than not having a boyfriend. even if u think ur not pretty, who cares, its more important how u act, ur character is whats important, be urself. and most important of all, ur not the only one who feels like that, ur not alone loads of people must have felt like that before and they survived it and so will u. hope u feel a bit better now.
2006-11-14 11:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Finn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the "Barbie" image has been in pressed in all the Girls , an that's not how the world really works. Take a step back look at yourself in the Mirror an find things you do like about yourself , an make them stand out, like lets say eyes .. add some make up to make them the brightest part of your face. Just know that ever women is Beautiful , Hold your head High an smile. A bright Smile makes you more beautiful than you already are.
2006-11-14 11:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by lilredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How close is your relationship with your father? You don't need a boyfriend you can do it on your own. Please get a hobby, female friends or a job!This bring back memories too! I remember going to church when I was a teen and feel gulity just for being a female after hearing that sexist crap Eve this and that. Women you a slave to your husband so rub his feet bla, bla , bla. Keep in mind females have a purpose we're not slaves in the US. Keep your chin up, you can like the rest of us. Good luck!
2006-11-14 11:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think that way. I don't really know what to say. I used to fee like that a lot because i didn't have a boyfriend and that i felt lonely but then i found Jesus Christ and really that's all i need if a guy comes along then GREAT but Jesus is all you need and you just need to accept him into your life. Pretty enough for what? Don't try and please other people that'll just make you feel worse.
2006-11-14 11:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by cavigirl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have low self-esteem, you think you need a man to validate yourself. I know it's hard, with the media and society placing all the emphasis on how women look. But please trust me when I say that NO MATTER what you look like, there is a guy for you. You have to love yourself before you can really love a man. Learn to accept your short-comings and recognize your strengths. No one is perfect. Know that you are worthy of a happy life and someone who loves you for who you are AND what you look like.
If you still have trouble, go to a therapist. Good luck.
2006-11-14 11:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Rwebgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes i get pretty sad about being single too but i don't cry about it. i kno im pretty and sum day i'll find a nice guy. like right now i like this guy but he has a gf it makes me sad but i try to just have fun with my friends. if u have good friends then u don't need to feel sad about being single. go out have fun. laugh. thats what i do/did
2006-11-14 21:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't feel confident in yourself. You need to step back and evaluate all of your positive qualities. I am sure there are many. Then build from there. You know a lot of people are very attracted to confidence.
2006-11-14 11:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hei, I am 35 yrs old...till now...no Girl Friend in my life....only true and rare female friends...even I do not know to cry.
2006-11-14 11:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by ZeeMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose maybe 5 or 20 pounds............
2006-11-14 10:58:10 · answer #10 · answered by dirty n 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋