My best friend who I have been friends with since like 1st grade and we are in 12th now is PG by my ex-boyfriend. She knows how bad he hurt me and she wants me to be the god-mom... What should I do??? Should I be mad that she did my ex because we are really close friends???
2006-11-14 02:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by miss.lodge_2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should be the God-Mom the baby didn't do anything wrong. Not to mention you are both still in high school and that's hard enough in itself but to be pg also and then to lose one of your closest friend too. She is going through enough just let her know that it hurt you for he to sleep with him and move on.
2006-11-14 03:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by RENA J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad at your ex because if you are not friends then you should not really care about him. As for your best friend yes be mad at her for screwing up. Try to talk to her in a calm polite manner though. Talk to her about how much this bothers you and tell her you will be there for her if she needs your help say your a bit disapointed. If you don't think she can handle the baby talk to her about adoption its the right thing to do.
2006-11-14 11:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by dalejrsucksdick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for her, you have to let the grugde go. B/c you may not know it, but you and him might be putting her in a painful position of choosing. But if he hurt you that bad and you can't let it go, you can't go thru w/it b/c there will be some sort of hatred for him. And you may possibly have to let her go also. And yes, of course, you have the right to be mad at her, but it depends if you want to keep her or lose her. Take care.
2006-11-14 11:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh, hes your ex, not your boyfriend, so yea be a god mom, she shouldnt have got PG in 12th grade though, !
2006-11-14 11:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by chris'sbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not mad, but feel you should be. He is your ex. Just be glad it isnt you in this position.
2006-11-14 11:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself "how much he hurt me". Let it go. She needs you now and friendship means much more then any guy. One day he will hurt her also and she will need you more then ever.
2006-11-14 11:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're asking us how you should feel. Maybe you should decide how you are feeling about this by yourself.
2006-11-14 11:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your ex, what do you care?
2006-11-14 10:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES thats not right
2006-11-14 10:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by kimsmokes2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋