I had a friend that turned on me because of who I choose to be. this friend now claims to be a "God Fearing Woman" but yet she is being judgemental about my family and the things in the past. I understand the bible to somewhat of a point but this is completely agains all that I have read and been instructed on.
2006-11-14 01:18:49 · 8 answers · asked by raymond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best way to walk away from someone like that is to simply inform them that this is not your beliefs and you refuse to allow anyone to corrupt them. If she is truely GOD fearing then she wouldn't judge you the way she did. GOD even informed his people not to surround ourselves with negative people. So, if she wants to have a problem with your choice just inform her that GOD said so. She can take it up with GOD.
2006-11-14 01:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and let her know that she is being very judgemental towards you and your family and she has no right to do that. Make sure that you are honest and tell her the truth and nothing but the truth. If she doesn't see that, discontinue the friendship. She is making you feel very uncomfortable when you are around her and you shouldn't have to feel that way. Hopefully, she'll realize that once you say something to her. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-11-14 10:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that you have your own relationship with God and from what you understand we are not supposed to judge each other, but help each other find our way in this world. Tell her that you forgive her for putting you down and you will pray for her then walk away. This should shut her up and give her something to think about too.
2006-11-14 09:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is wrong for being judgemental of you if anything she should be more of a friend now,I am a christian and still have many relationships with friends who live diffrently but thats my choice not theirs, acceptance makes you a better christian
2006-11-14 09:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by hateraide55 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sever all ties and communication with her. Dose she go to the same church as you? If so, then move churches. It's a hard thing to do, but for your own sake, do it.
2006-11-14 15:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by FruitLoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't worry about the situation just let God take over and handle it.
2006-11-14 09:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by special 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Laugh and walk away. You don't need to have people such as her in your life.
2006-11-14 09:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by noonee333 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-11-14 09:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋