A girl friend of mine (Jill) started to date my fiance's friend (Jack)..
Jack ended up cheating on Jill- my fiance told me about it and told me I should not tell Jill because it is not any of our business.
I think it is my obligation as a friend to tell Jill to drop this loser. I know this wont be his last time cheating because he has already mentioned to my fiance that one of Jill's friends wants to get Jack in bed also.
People are disgusting!
2006-11-14 01:05:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Alright she is going to call me in a bit. It sounds as if she already might know because when I texted her telling her we need to talk- she said some **** went down. I was tryin to make her laugh and asked her if she was in jail and she said "no but she might be soon and she will call me in a bit."
Sounds as if she might already know..
2006-11-14 01:18:14 · update #1
Thank you all for your answers!
Sorry for repeating myself above- just worked up.
2006-11-14 01:20:22 · update #2
People ARE disgusting.
dont listen to your boy, he's probably concerned itll cause problems between him and jack.
Be the good friend you seem like and tell her. wouldnt you want the same respect if the shoe were on the other foot?
good luck and do what you know is right
meeowf
2006-11-14 01:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Meeowf 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have every duty to tell him I was just in this situation, only my Godsister told me that my best friends boyfriend was cheating which she saw with her own eyes, anyway I would make you fiance tell her, it's tricky a lot of times when we tell our friends things they think we are just so jealous or just never liked the guy, even though that is very true in my case you still love your friend and would never hurt her, if you never mention it she will hate you later and blame you if she marries him and finds out you knew all along, friendships have to be built on trust and love, i always tell my friends i love you and i don't care if you never call me again but you can never say i didn't in for you of his cheating a&&.....
2006-11-14 01:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by goldenkitty187inc 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her, but be very sensitive in the way you tell her. Wouldn't you want "Jill" to tell you if you were being cheated on? That's horrible that other people know about it except for the one that is going to get hurt.
2006-11-14 01:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by tmac 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are sooooo right.....it is your obligation as a friend to tell her. You would want her to do the same for you. Don't let Jack date anymore of your friends, you can see already what will happen!!
2006-11-14 01:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by cakelady 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to tell your friend. You also need to inform your fiancee that if he doesn't want it to be his business then he shouldn't spread peoples' dirty laundry around. I would also ask your fiancee if this is the only conversations the two of them have. Sounds like his friend would cover for your fiancee as well. Good luck and I wish all the best for your friend.
2006-11-14 01:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As her friend you have an obligation to tell her! If you didn't and she found out you knew, that would be grounds to end the friendship....well in my view anyways.
2006-11-14 01:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by Cindi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her. Tell your fiance that you are though and if he still disagrees discuss it and see if you can both come up to an answer. Maybe just leading your friend to find it out on her own?
2006-11-14 01:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
TELL HER. THATS YOUR FRIEND AND YOU SHOULD BE TRUE TO HER. WOULDNT YOU WANT SOMEONE TO TELL YOU IF YOURE FIANCE WAS CHEATING ON YOU? I BET YOU DO. SO TELL YOUR FRIEND. IT'LL HURT HER BUT ATLEAST SHE WONT BE WITH A LOSER.
2006-11-14 01:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
come on!! tell it!! if u'r really a gud friend, u shud tel it 2 her ryt now!! don't wait for her to be hurt pretty badly, and don't let her know it to other people but u...
2006-11-14 01:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her gently. The sooner the better.
2006-11-14 01:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dewy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋