2006-11-14 00:53:56 · 9 answers · asked by alea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had a friend that was like that as well. I can only suggest that you let her live her life and deal with the consequences of her actions.
She will get hurt many times and you just have to decide if you're willing to be her shoulder to cry on or not. If you really want to be her friend, I'd suggest to stand by her through anything. But if this doesn't appeal to you anymore, tell her that you're too different and move on.
Hope everything works out!
2006-11-14 01:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend just like that. All she cares about are boys and the sad part is that every relationship she's in after a week or so she tells me that she is in love and that he is different from all the others, she says that about every freakin' guy. I constantly watch her get hurt over this and i constantly warn her about it, but she doesn't listen. Trust me when i say that your friend is likely to not give a damn about what you tell her. So all you have to do is sit back and wait until that boy hurts her and give her a shoulder to cry one, no matter what, if she is truly your friend.
2006-11-14 09:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gemma G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem with my friend but the best thing you can do is be real with her tell her what she is doing and that u care about her and its hard but sometimes u have to be mean so she'll understand if she still does not understand just let the whole thing go some poeple need to fall by there self meaningshe will learn in time but talk to her about if she does not listen a well what can u do
2006-11-14 09:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell her to stop. If her behavior is too annoying, it is time to find a new friend. She will probably outgrow this in time if she is a young teen. You can tell her how bothersome it is and hope she will divide her caring among boys and her friends. I hope it works out and you don't have to find a new friend. When the time comes that you have a boyfriend, you will understand your friend much better!
2006-11-14 09:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be wrong if your friend do not do anything at all but seeing, staring,chatting and flirting with boys..BUT if she just very excited about it and have no tendency to have mess with alot of boys then she's still in sane state of mind.Some girls are just like that, they just have fun talking about boys,boys,boys, they might be in teenage years, you know teenagers are so hyper active people most especially to their opposite sexes. BUT if your friend is in mature age and she still act that way then maybe its time for you to speak to her and advice her to be mild and not too hot, because eventually it will lead to problems, and you dont want your friend to have that.Give your part and if she never listen to you then you now know that she's not really your friend, and you could decide if you still stick to her because somehow she could influence you in bad things like that.Hope i could somehow help you.Thats all.
2006-11-14 09:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you consider yourself a friend to this person when what you are stating here is that you want to control her actions?
That isn't friendship. Friends enjoy the differences in one another. Desiring to control someone elses actions and choices is a whole different situation.
2006-11-14 08:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She'll learn once she gets hurt.
2006-11-14 08:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care what she cares about?
If it was a guy, and all she cared about were chicks, would that be so bizzare?
-HtJ
2006-11-14 08:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by hesterthehester 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well.......whats the point?? she will grow out of it... leave her alone
2006-11-14 08:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by mmm..whynot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋