is it necessary to have a bf?

Question

in my school, only those students get famous who have an affair with someone
but i dont have, so I'm not famous and very less children talk to me.
i'm a very simple and a quiet type of girl.
pls help yaar!

Answer 1

hey sweet girl, b/f g/f r only a craze in school times. it's n't ur mistake , in ur age these tye of feelings r normal. when i was at ur age, i don't have b/f, and i don't want to b, but honestily speeking sometimes i also feel bad when my frd talked about their b/fs dates, gifts, etc. etc. even when i was in college i face the same situation....iat college time my frd force me to do friendishp, but i refuse, even now i m in uni situation is same, but u know now i m hapy on my decision....bcoz now the fact come in front of ne and ny age group.
that b/f r like a dream which never come true, but on the same time it gaves u lot of problems like main is daiting.im sure u know others.
now those girls r crying who had b/f. how can u trust on a person? believe me babay mostly boys most of the time want only one thing from girl thats physical relation.
like glamour world it's a myth that if u want 2 papular then u want a b/f. i don't have b/f still i m popular, coz i have my own id, i m different from others. boys give more respect 2 me. they r good frds.
i think u must take advise from that person who have b/f, who is older then u. two whom u know. who have life xperience. what ever i told u it's my exp.
remember one thing if ur frds r true thren they will accept u as u r not as they want u.

Answer 2

It is not necessary to have a boy friend.

Schoo is a place to learn, so study do not need to be famous, this is a falls notion get it out of your head.

Once in a while you do need a dancing partner at a school dance, you can ask any boy and dance with many and still enjoy the evening.

Let few boy know that you are going but are going alone, then see if they need a partner for the evenig only. Put up a note on the board need a partner, take a neibough, even go alone.

Answer 3

i think it's not quite a big problem. think about what you really want- to be famous or to become someone? fame may not be so good as it looks and it may even cause trouble. better try to enjoy these years while studying hard to become someone in the future. being simple and quiet may help you look at the others objectively- you can start studying people to learn things about them.
anyway, having a bf only to be famous in school is the wrong reason to have a bf. this must come naturally, because both of you want to be friends. so wait for the time when someone wants to be your bf and everything will be alright. don't focus so much on this idea of fame- it is just temporary.

Answer 4

hello they are not famous, they are foolish if they think so.
u will be great ultimately and u will get the honours later on if u are correct and single.
have no worries, school is not the place for all this.
u be simple and nice as well as quiet.
less friends more is the life beautiful.
affair is a very acward word. no one should have this. if entered into then the life becomes miserable and u will be left doing nothing except screwing. that's not life, my dear.
hope u like this, be happy. all the best.

Answer 5

You in no way need a boy. Right now you need to focus on school and other things that make you happy, find a hobby. Right now you definitely don't need the stress a boy can bring. It's hard BC boys are so much drama, especially when your friends and the boy don't get along, now that is more drama. Basically right now at this moment boys are definitely an unnecessary stress. Focus on doing well in school and enjoying school while you still have the chance, Enjoy your youth and the time you have with your friends :O)

Answer 6

It is not necessary for having boyfriends.When you actually have an affair with someone,it is not fun being famous.You better concentrate on your studies than things like this.One who has a bf,is always taken for granted by his friends and the matter they always talk about is his stuff.Seriously you do not know the consequences of having a bf.So be happy about it.

Answer 7

Concentrate on your study. There's plenty of time for you to get into a relationship laterrrr..... and one that is meaningful too if you wait for the right one to come along and not just go into one just for the sake of it. Many dumb people do that because they didn't study when they were suppose to. There's an asian saying, you work and toil hard now, and reap and enjoy your live later. Understand grasshopper?... You'll be laughing all the way to the bank sweetie.

Answer 8

welll i have got to know from u only ki a person get famous by having b/f or girl freind thn everyone wud become famous if everyone wud have think like u dear life i not like tht not it start wid boy frend no it end wid up it is ur qualitiy tht makes u spl for eg amitabh what makes him famous his ACTING FOR SURE SAME WID SACHIN NOT THEIR GIRL FREIND MAKE THM FAMOUS .moreover biggest thing is at this age of ur i think u slhd concentrate more on ur studies rather thn wastng ur time thinking abt these useless issues I AGREE THT LOVE IS NECEESARY ONLY AT RIGHT TIME AND RIGHT MATCH IS THERE THN ONLY OTHERWISE DEFINATELY NOT and i think u have got the most impressive nature as it refeclt ur true personality so dont bother ok just tc of ur self

Answer 9

Dear Niki, NO its not necessary to hv a bf... U r in school nd i
think u shud concentrate on ur studies... My dear niki concentrate
on ur studies, do hard work and get gud marks so that ur parents
also feel proud on u and than u wl also get famous by securing
gud marks in school than everyone wl come to know that she is
the best gal.. Do hard work and secure gud marks to become top
student of ur school.. All d best for ur future... Nd dont indulge
urself in these matters.. If no one is talking to u than be in urself,
concentrate on studys.. Bye take care..

Answer 10

it's depend.....
actually,is not necessary to have a bf.
it just like a feshion that peoples intend to follow .
if u think that alone are more comfortable, no need to bother about others.....
but for me, bf is very imporatnt.
peoples can live indepentently....
but they do need support from other especially some one that really close to u.
when u feel blue, u need some one to talk, u need some one to acompany u. eventhough u may say that u can get all of this from ur friends,but i tell u sincerely,sometimes u can not get the feeling of satisfy just from ur friends...
when it come u will know.....
good luck...