Every morning my boyfriend wakes up horny and wants sex, as I am not a "morning person" i can be arsed. We have a great sex life so why make a fuss about it?
Anyway, to get him off my back I will turn over and let him dry shag me while I snooze but of course this is not ideal.
Should I be more accommodating or should he respect my wishes and wait till later?
2006-11-14 00:39:13 · 29 answers · asked by benn26k 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why dont you compramise* you should let him know how you feel but you are willing to sometimes do it in the morning but let him know you dont want to do it everyday you would like to wait a little later sometimes during the week. He will understand and your relationship will work out better because you are working together as a team to make your relationship work better. I mean it might even make you want it sometimes in the morning if he isnt always wanting it and buging you for it in the morning. Good luck and hopefully it works out.
2006-11-14 09:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by brandenbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about this
once a week or every two weeks youll have a morning shag with him. I think that sounds fair. And before you do this maybe he could rub your back or bring you breakfast or well, whatever would make you feel comfortable.
If he does not like this I think you shoudl talk to him about it and tell him he cannot do that because your not some peice of meat.
2006-11-14 02:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmi H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking that maybe a compromise is an ideal resolution to this problem.
Dry humping can't be very pleasant for either of you but I'm guessing that as he's reaching a satisfactory conclusion it's an easier pill to swallow on his part. I would recommend telling him that whilst sex is good, it would be even better if both of you were tuned in to the same station and that mornings really aren't your forte.
I'm sure that occasionally you wouldn't mind him climbing aboard just as you'd expect him to comply to your request? Explain that the last thing you feel like in the morning is to be stabbed in the uterus!
2006-11-14 00:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a universal problem, lots of men like morning `leg-overs`. Most of the women appear to be like you, and would rather sleep. It has something to do with the fact that it is a biological need for men, rather than a romantic one at that time of the day. Women need to be aroused and be in the mood for sex, which usually means some `close` time with her man, talking to him and being loved and giving love back, being cuddled and touched and intimate. Except in mad moments of passion women prefer a `build up` to sex, rather than"Wham bang, thank you m`am".
2006-11-14 00:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Social Science Lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. I am a morning person-- and love morning sex-its great. Your partner should respect your wishes though... or you should have a compromise
2006-11-16 06:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be happy he is that into you. I wish my husband would bother me for sex. I am the one that wants to dry hump him in the morning. He should respect your wishes, but you should indulge him sometimes, it is only fair. I wish my husband would give me that kind of consideration, i just get barked at in the morning.
2006-11-16 08:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should respect your wishes but you should also respect his. What's wrong with having morning sex once in a while?
2006-11-14 00:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by lynnca1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect your wishes definitely
2006-11-14 03:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered a sexual surrogate? Someone to take care of him in the morning and do you at night? That way you get the best of both worlds.
2006-11-14 10:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by Todd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little give and take would work. Half the time respect his wishes, the other half, your wishes should be respected
2006-11-14 01:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋