What is the right age to get married and have kids ?

Question

I am 28 almost 29 and worried that I really should be getting married by 30 ?

Please no answer like 'any age' or when you are comfortable.

Answer 1

For me best ages are 30 for marriage and to have a kids 31,32. But this is my opinion. I wonna have a kids in 30 becase you have energy for tham.

Answer 2

There is no right age unless you are with the right person. Personally I would rather be single at 30 than married to the wrong person and either bringing kids up in a marriage that didn't work or putting them through a break up!

Don't worry about getting married by 30. I'm 31, and didn't meet my fiancé until I was nearly 29 - most of my friends of the same sort of age are not yet married either. And none of them have kids. My best friend has just met the guy she will end up marrying, at 30. It's becoming more and more common to get married later and it doesn't make any difference.

Answer 3

I would have said 'when you feel you are ready', bt you don't want that. So I'll say that 29 and 30 are nice comfortable ages to get married- for a guy. Anytime up to the age of 36 is okay, any later and you'll start worrying it will never happen.

Answer 4

I think between 30 & 35 is a good age for a man to settle down and get married and have kids. This age is not too old and not too young either. Men should enjoy being a bachelor for a good amount of time. You only have this one lifetime, atleast make the most of it and have as much fun as you can. That includes travelling the world, seeing and doing different things.

Answer 5

Well I read that marriages / relationships that begin before the age of 25 are much more likely to fail that ones that begin after that age. The article explained that basically, the later you leave marriage, the better. Older people tend to have more of an idea about what they want from life and their relationships. They are more mature and ready to settle - generally speaking of course. However, obviously the later you leave it, the harder it is to have children. Women's fertility declines with age and the peak age for a woman to conceive is late teens to early twenties I think. I'd say if we're talking practically, the best age to get marries is late twenties.

Answer 6

I would say late 20's, because there are so many obstacles in our lives these days that prevent us from having children earlier. Our careers, finances, whether we have our own homes, desires to travel e.t.c. first.

I think if you are in your early 20's when you have kids you'll miss out on your youth and you'll always wonder what it would have been like to go wild and have fun. But if you leave it too late it becomes more and more difficult to meet someone and unless you go for younger women, women your own age may have difficulties conceiving if they get too old. And it is common, lots of women leave it till their late 30's to think about having kids, thinking they have plenty of time, but they don't. They can't conceive naturally, go through thousands of pounds worth of IVF and heartache and end up with no baby.

Sorry to sound harsh, but that's life. You've still got a few more years before you need to worry though, because you're a man, you could always go for a younger woman and then there wouldn't be a problem.

Answer 7

There is no right age. Just follow your heart. I you marry at 20 years of age and have children right away, you are young and have plenty of energy and can be young with them. But you will not have saved enough money to have your own house, so you will possibly be living in less than perfect accommodation, you won`t have reached a very high level on the pay scale, so you won`t have much money, or much of anything else, you will always be short of money, and that is not good for a relationship.That does not mean it won`t work for you, but you have to try harder. If you wait for marriage and children until your late thirties, you will possibly have a house and furniture and car and a fairly good salary etc.But you will not have so much energy to devote to your children, and by the time they are 21years old, you will be thinking of retiring. Unfortunately no one else can live your life for you, so you will have to make your own decisions and mistakes. So good luck.!

Answer 8

You say don't say 'no age' but that is true. You can be 18 and get married or 89. When you meet someone you want to marry that is the right age. As for children, as long as you have a home and an income to provide for them and you want them, then that is the time.

Answer 9

I would say the right age of any one getting married is 18 to 22.

Answer 10

There is no right age coz No one who got into a relationship that did'nt encounter problems but answers always present themselves in the right time... So everyone is a student when it comes to marriage that's why there is no school for parenting... The best time is when you are mature enough to face the fact that getting married and having children is the best and worst experience in a person's life

Answer 11

when ever you feel ready

i got married at 20, and it was the best thing i have ever done,
i love my hubby so much and we have been married for 5 years, yeh i know pass the sick bag!!!! lol

when you feel ready that the right age! but i guess you dont want a answer like that, i guess if you have kids it would be nice to get wed when they are old enough to be involved,

i think 30 is a good age, your still be young looking in your wedding pics xx