I'm enagaged to a wonderful man, but his estranged wife keeps trying to sexually solicitate him online. Is there any charges or complaints that I can legally file?
2006-11-14 00:02:08 · 10 answers · asked by jaina64 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
contact your local law enforcement agency.
secondly...HOW does your fiance's estranged wife know his on line stuff?
he NEEDS to change his email, home AND work and any messenger type accounts need to be deleted, and/or changed.
and finally....your fiance needs to END the marriage to HER.
she obviously doesn't think the relationship is over...and why would she? they are not divorced, only separated.
it's time YOU put YOUR foot down honey, or your going to be dealing w/this for a LONG time to come.
either he needs to get the papers signed, or your out. (even if you don't want to) if he's so wonderful he should have ended the marriage BEFORE he asked YOU to marry him.
brutally honest...im sorry, but Ive seen this happen to my best friend.
wonderful man, estranged wife....engagement lasted 6 years...still no divorce...excuses excuses (cant afford it, she'll sue me for alimony, the kids, etc etc. you name it)
watch your back girl or you might get your heart broke. oh...and they never did get married, my best friend and mr.wonderful. he's still married, and still seperated, and still stringing girls along.
2006-11-14 00:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think there is anything that you can do unless she is coming after you directly, then you would be able to file charges on her for harassment. Since it is your man he would need to file charges on her. Let me tell you if they have children together I don't think that's going to happen and I'm sure if she's after sex from him still he is probably giving her some type of sign that says she can still get it if she wants it so you need to be careful. You need to trust that he is going to do the right thing but at the same time watch your back.
2006-11-14 08:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you cannot do anything. It is his responsiblitly to take action. If he has told her to stop and she doesn't he could then file a restraining order against her.
If he hasn't taken action, I would think long and hard about marrying him. Why is he allowing this to continue?
Good luck!
2006-11-14 08:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ dreamweaver ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but you can get that wonderful man to change his email address and IM name. It is his responsibility to tell his WIFE? to back off. How can you be engaged to a married man? Shouldn't you wait until he is divorced?
2006-11-14 08:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by just browsin 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your fiancee can block the IM's or emails from her. If he refuses, It would lead me to believe he's instigating it, or at the very least, condoning it. I'd demand he block her or I'd get out while I still could!
2006-11-14 08:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you cant but he can file a cease and dissist order against her if he dont want to do that tell him your not getting married to him cause he obviously still has feelings for that woman
2006-11-14 08:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that there is anything that you can do because its not for you but the man that you are engaged to can if he feels offended by it
2006-11-14 10:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by rebecca v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't he just ignore her? and if he is,,,then why are you worried so much? If he isn't, I'd hold off the wedding just to be sure he's over her.
2006-11-14 08:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by kiss me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
check with your local police dept.
they are better equiped to tell you what you and he can and cannot do legally.
2006-11-14 08:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, If anything is to be done, he has to do it!
2006-11-14 08:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by Gerry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋