is it possible to still be in love with someone even after a long time not being together (divorced for a while,years)if so why can't you let go of it ????
2006-11-13 23:11:42 · 9 answers · asked by sptech1994 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes it is possible. You got a divorce for a reason. But time apart can make people realize what they had and also what they need to change. Maybe you want to know if she has changed and thats why you are holding on to her... I say give it a go whats the worst that could happen. Im trying to give mine another run.
2006-11-14 00:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by marla b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible. But it is a more of a memory than anything. And you are probably thinking of all the good times.
You can't let it go becasue it makes your heart feel good.
But, you can't go back. Well, usually not.
A divorce is a loss like a death. You need to grieve. But, you also need to move on.
We all have someone in our lives that we love but we can't have them in our lives for one reason or another.
Just figure that person has a little piece of your heart.
And you will love again.
2006-11-14 07:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. Sometimes we hang on to a fantasy. It happened with my high school sweetheart. We got together after 30 years. It was very nice. But she was not willing to get a divorce and change her life significantly. She opted for being a very rich, but deperate "housewife" - she runs a family business that has a $1,000,000 monthly budget and hires a maid for the housework.
2006-11-14 07:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very possible to be in love after all that time, but actually trying to live again with that person is a completely different matter. Don't forget time and memory have a habit of painting a rosey glow over past loves, we tend to forget the nasty stuff.
2006-11-14 07:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by mizzsquitz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sure is.. I still think about my ex wife once in a while.. Hey at least you have a heart.. Others have a grudge that can go on for years too.. I'm glad you don't have that.. Like the other guy said.. Good luck.. Your a real human being...
2006-11-14 07:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by MinnesotaRick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think true love lasts forever. However, we can love someone and know it is not best for us to be with them. You may want to figure out why you can't let go.
2006-11-14 07:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you figure it out please let me know. I was doing well with my seperation and upcoming divorce until he told me he still loved me and would miss me forever. We have not acted on our feelings and probably won't because sadly we were not happy together the last few years and we are both filled with fear. good luck
2006-11-14 10:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by bayoubelle98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i couldnt marry the guy i loved (my ever first love) coz of some family problems. my parents got me married to another guy who is a family friend n now father of my two girls, we've been married for six years but my first love is still in my mind but not in my heart anymore coz that place has now been conquered by my husband whom i had told everything about my first love. but as they say first love is never forgotten n yes i can never forget him.
2006-11-14 07:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, thay do say you never forget your first love, go with it.
good luck.
2006-11-14 07:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by no_barbiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋