She tells me that she's sad but when i ask her "why?" she tell me "If i tell you, you wouldn't understand!!!" so i think that if she doesn't tell me the more i won't understand... and i feel like she doesn't want me anymore as a friend... she'd rather go off with her new friends! me and her have been friends since i don't remember when!!! its like i feel that she doesn't want me anymore in her life...what should I do?
2006-11-13 22:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by Katchy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask her why she doesn't trust u. This is definitelly a trust problem
2006-11-13 22:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend doesn't want to tell you the reason she is sad because she thinks you won't understand. Did she in the past tell when she was sad and you did not understand? If so, tell her, you want to understand, empathize and sympathize with her. Even if this did not happen, you can still tell her the same thing and tell her that's what good friends are for - to share the happy and sad times.
Good luck!
2006-11-14 07:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by happy inside 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all calm down . there are times when evrything doesnt fall into yhe places and it might be with her to. now sensibly walk down to her and tell her that har problem in some or the other way hurts me and i want the fragrance of ur face back.
if she still is adamant on not sharing her problem,be with her everytime u see her. make her feel that she could end relationships but not the feelings.
she'll come back bec. today good friends are hard to find by.
2006-11-14 07:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by ricky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,life is too short to worry over people that may not even be in your life that long.This is a time for you to learn about other people and learn exactly the kind of friends you want to keep.Don't you dare fret over the friends you meet along the way because at least when you've matured,you will have insight into what a friend is to you,You will one day meet people that view friendship as you do so get over the the ones who don't measure up,it has nothing to do with who you are it's who they are that you should be seeing.
2006-11-14 07:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get really angry with her. Just calm down. Explain to her that you will understand. And if you have been friends with her for a long time, then she will understand that YOU will understand. Just sit her down, talk to her calmly. If she still won't tell you, then respect her privacy and just get on with your life. If you are worried that she doesn't want to be your friend, ask her calmly. If she continues to show signs that mean she doesn't want to be your friend, then... confront her and talk to her again. If she still continues, well... I don't know.
2006-11-14 07:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by the_dog_says_miaow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe whatever is bothering her, has something to do with you, confront her either way, once its out in the open, you will both begin to feel much happier about your relationship.
2006-11-14 06:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you dont let her see that it bothers you so much that she is having a problem and she will eventually come to you for advice if that is what she needs...reverse psychology hon
2006-11-14 06:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to comfort her show her that she needs you not her other friends and dont try to get into it fast she willl decide on her time and you will be happy just to comfort her
2006-11-15 20:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by Angela b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-11-14 06:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋