I have been with my BF for over an year now, I love him to bits and we are very happy, he treats me like a queen an averything but the problem is I like girls. Not like, like girls but i'm attracted to them in a way, I know I'm not a lesbien or bio sexual but i get turn on if i see girls kissing and touching each other. I don't know what to do and if this is just a phase i'm going throw or something. Has any other girl ecperience this before. If yes please help.
2006-11-13 22:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by chantelle d 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know what you mean. I'm not a lesbian, but I am attracted to girls. I've kissed girls, but nothing else, so far. It is hot when you see girls go at it, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you only want girls. It just turns you on.
2006-11-14 07:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by verhotica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through something like this years ago and I was completely wanton. Just obsessed with sex. Period. It did not matter if it was women or men- as long as it was sexual, I was "all ears" (and everything else)! Looking back, I realize it was some kind of hormone surge. Wow! It's funny as heck to remember because I have never been a terribly sexual individual- before or since. When I recall that time, it was as though all my life's dose of hormones came in 3-4 months!! I was totally possessed.
2006-11-14 07:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting turned on is a little different than attraction. When I was young (12) I was extrememly aroused by a sensual TV ad starring a beautiful woman, but I wasn't necessarily attracted to girls...(that came years later). There are some people who are turned on by sex in general, not necessarily by male or female.
2006-11-14 06:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Blooming Sufi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said you aren't a lesbian, and you are simply turned on by watching them together sexually. This is just a trigger for you, and isn't a threat to your heterosexuality. Use it to fantasize about, and enjoy your boyfriend, he sounds like a keeper.
2006-11-14 08:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby fantasizing about women and getting turned on means your a lesbian. That enough will eventually make you get some woman loving action going on. Trust me. I used to try to ignore my impulses for men, I had to finally give in. Be true to yourself and let your BF know b4 you get further in your relationship and these urges get stronger.
2006-11-14 07:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may still be trying to find yourself what you like and what you want in a real realationship you might wanna tell your friends you just wanna stick to being friends at the moment your just not ready yet. i think though you might be turning bi
2006-11-14 11:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by BOOTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEE A DOCTOR
2006-11-14 07:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
just try not to look .very easy.
2006-11-14 06:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by only_g_i_love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
consult doctor.
2006-11-14 07:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by Thiruvallur Vangeepuram Rohith 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋