I have this weird thinking..
Few months back I made a new friend.. He is a guy and I am a girl.. Then one day we went out together for lunch and a movie.. I thought he is weird even though he did not do anything weird and I didn't really like him as a friend at all.. So, after that day, I kinda ignore his messages and all stuffs.. I always find excuses when he ask me to have lunch with him..
So, one day I bump into him at the mall and we chat and suddenly I change my thought about him.. I thought he is nice and sweet and not weird at all.. So, I started to treat him more like a friend..
I have this problem.. Whenever I meet new people, I tend to dislike the person when we first met and then the second time we meet, I like him.. As a friend of course.. Seriously, what is wrong with me or is some of you like me??
2006-11-13 22:33:25 · 8 answers · asked by lemonieHm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Technically, no, nothing is wrong with you. Perhaps you should be a little more open minded when you meet new people, so you you don't miss out on what could potentially be a very good friend.
2006-11-13 22:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you.
Everyone can be judging towards each othe and it changes over time.
Glad that you saw that flaw in yourself, turn it in a good way which may benefit you.
Since you know that your first judgement could be wrong, it would be better thaat you give ur new friends a second chance, Dont just stop with one meeting.
2006-11-14 06:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now since you realize the way you are, maybe you can try to control it. instead of looking for someones faults when you first meet them, look for their good qualities. i know pleanty of people who have that problem. theres nothing wrong with you. youre not so different, relax and take a deep breath. now sigh, and think about what i said. today is a new day. so go out and make the best of it.
2006-11-14 06:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by beb27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my perspective there is NOTHING wrong with your change in interest!
Many people live by the old adage that 'love at first sight' is appropriate to the meeting of our appropriate partner. In contrast many others know that it the opposite may be more likely to begin a possitive future of devoted unity that will exceed 'overnight' matters.
You refer to yourself as being 'a young girl'. That doesn't mean that you aren't in possession of wisdom - 'irrespective' of age, wisdom is somewhat enhanced by the nature of YOUR question.
2006-11-14 06:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by mulroy1563 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have trust issues, so don't worry about it. Obviously, you gave this person a second chance, and once you got to know him, decided he was an OK guy. There's nothing wrong with being cautious, and kind of screening people before becoming friends with them.
2006-11-14 06:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a way that is good because you don't need to jump into things fast so that is a good trait to me.people may have to prove them selves to be of good nature to be around yoou so I say that's good.I hear of some on here who meet someone and fall in love way too quickly.
2006-11-14 07:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you is the way you were created you judge someone before you get to know them and no some of us learn to know some people before we judge them
2006-11-14 06:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by alfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have breasts and squat to pee.
2006-11-14 06:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋