Here's the thing it was a drunken booze filled night and she happened to shag one of our mates while he was passed out.Now the odd thing is it wasn't the first time this has happened.But it was the same guy. Figures the guy she is shagging is an old flame thats not willing to be put out as he tells us.Anyway my buddy is ignorant of this matter.What should i do? My conscience is unable to rest when i'm with all of them?
2006-11-13 22:23:00 · 11 answers · asked by Cube 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex and life - too complicated. I am now running out of answers. Can we ever stand on judgement? Many of us have cheated, in our minds at least, some carry it through a bit more. You know what, let it be. Que sara sara, it is not your conscience, it is hers. Things happen and life is so weird
2006-11-13 22:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by 40andgoing 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let me guess: you want to run right over there and tell him, right?
Let me tell you something. Keep you nose out of it Buster. I would want to know of course too but, this isn't your business. In the first place she's going to eventually tell him or he'll find out through other means.
Don't be the one to break up a marriage. He may already know anyway. Your going to be the one at the wet end of the rope, I'll guarantee it.
2006-11-13 23:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business and let your buddy find out himself in due time. The situation can become turned around when you think you're doing your buddy a favor by telling him. For the most part people who are in love or think they are "in love" believe what they want.
2006-11-13 23:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by mzVic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing the barer of bad news is usually the one who gets frowned upon. Get ready for this to happen if you do tell him.
Your friend may no about it, not wanting this news to get out? When you tell him just be ready... sounds like his wife is not the best person!! Sounds like he might be better off without her!
Good luck!
2006-11-13 22:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
enable me inform you the ultimate thank you to flow approximately this, by way of fact i replaced into interior an identical undertaking...Use a private quantity to call his abode, have a guy with a distinctive voice ask for his spouse and carry up immediately. try this a number of situations till he ultimately gets the balls to ask his woman on the topic of the guy that retains calling for her. quickly adequate you would be sitting at a bar and he would be telling you all approximately it. worked for me, so stable success.
2016-12-14 06:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to his wife tell her what you told us and give her a week to tell her hubby. After that week meet her hubby and tell him about it. He may not care and if thats the case shag her yourself.
2006-11-13 23:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters are scum. But, as for telling the spouse, I gotta say that IF you'd tell her if he was cheating, then yes, you should tell him that she's cheated. Otherwise, you'd be saying that cheating is OK for guys, but not ok for women.
2006-11-13 22:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make up a email address so he dosn`t know who is telling him. Then anonymously tell him every detail.
2006-11-13 22:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you tell her you know and if it happens again,,you will tell her husband,,if she doesnt respect and love him there are plenty of women who will.
2006-11-13 22:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He deserves to know--if it were me, I would tell him. She doesn't deserve him.
2006-11-13 23:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋