when we were friends he keep running after me then when i agree to go with him at frist he cared a lot for me he had impresse me a lot now he doesn't phone me he doesn't sms me yesterday i met him he said that he was busy he will talk to me later sunday nite i have sms him but he doesn't ans me when i ask him y does this to me he just ans that he doesn't have credit on his mob sometime i feel very lonely i want to talk to him but he isn't here when i call him he talk rudely to me he made cry when he talk like this to me my heart says that he the perfect man yes he the one who i was lookin for but i don't wat should do am figthing to get him but i don't wat to do i cried a lot IS GOD HERE y god is rude to me
2006-11-13 22:10:03 · 7 answers · asked by lovena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lovena,
Meeting people and dating is a tricky business at best. There are so many pieces that have to fit just right for everything to work long term that it sometimes surprises me that any two people ever manage to stay together. Society in this country today seems to promote the disposible relationship ( if it's broke, throw it out and get another) over the much harder work involved in fixing it and keeping it going. You don't mention your ages but there to, at difrent times in our lives people need diffrent things from there partners and the things partners have to offer shifts with thier age. If these things are out of sequence with each other you will not have what the other needs and vise versa.
It is much harder on the person being left behind than on the person leaving too. It sounds as if you are a loving, caring person who needs to appreciate her own self worth and know that there is a gentleman out there somewhere who will be grateful for the oppertunity to fullfill your life. I think you should learn what you can from this experiance then put it in an shoebox up on a closet shelf with your other memories and move on. Good Luck, Hank
2006-11-13 22:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Hank B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is always there for you, you should not use his name in your life. Instead you ask him for a help, i reckon my answer can hurt you or not but please accept it. Maybe he is really busy you should respect him as he respect you, you should not think negative because the more you think the more he will not talk to you. You should not call him always because if you call him always it makes him annoying. The chances of talking with you will decrease. Wait until he talks to you because maybe he is so busy in doing his assignments and the responsibilities that he supposed to do as a son or a friend. Wait until he will be the one will tell what he feel. If he brake you, i know you will really hurt but don't give up maybe it is not the right time for you or he is not the right for you
2006-11-14 06:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by carmeLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care for this man he does not want you he is a looser. relationships are not like a switch - switch on and switch off. Get him out of your thoughts. Find some other person. He is not God and not even the pebble that God wants to walk on. He is no your man.
2006-11-14 06:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda sounds like he maybe seeing someone else. If a guy is treating you like sweetie he is not the one for you. You need to be treated like a princess first and always. If thats not the case then you really need to move on before you really get hurt.
2006-11-14 06:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by antonettef28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like this guy has got what he wants bow he doesn't care about you anymore i would call it quits girl.
i don't think that you are meant to feel lonely in a relationship and you shouldn't have to fight this much for it.
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2006-11-14 06:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by sndn_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not enough sex
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