2006-11-13 21:07:04 · 11 answers · asked by jennifer hall h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No you can do what you want, but is it the right situation to put your children back into??? and if you do decide to get back with him be sure that the children are not to witness any of your Abusiveness towards each other.
2006-11-13 21:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abusive environments are destructive for everyone especially for the innocent ones who are your kids. Growing up were parents are abusive towards each other is detrimental to children and also place them at a greater risk of being abused themselves as well as being in abusive relationships as adults (being the abuser or the abused). It's also not healthy for you, and I'm sure it also affected the way you related to your kids when you were in that relation. My humble advice. Don't get back with him unless you both want a healthy relationship for your sake and your children's well being and not until both of you have seeked help. Abusive relationships are hard cycles to break. Don't believe in promises that won't happen again. Remember, your children's well being and happiness should be your priority. Good luck!!
2006-11-13 21:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong, yes....he's already been in jail for beating you!! Dysfunction breeds dysfunction and you would be teaching your children that abuse is okay, and it is not. You deserve better and your children deserve better. Maybe you and their father will be better parents if you are apart...perhaps you just bring out the worst in each other. Bottom line is the two of you will never change...you have already established the volitile relationship and it will always be so if you are together.
2006-11-14 00:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again yes find someone who wasn't locked up for beating you. Show your kids that your better than that and that you can be with someone that will treat you and them right. Otherwise you kids will grow up to either kick the crap out of their wives or marry abusive husbands.
-NmD!
2006-11-13 21:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It wud be in the interest of all the parties. This is why legal procedure provides for judicial separation as a prelude to full fledged divorce in some countries.
2006-11-13 21:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not endanger you or the children, be smart, you will abuse eachother again, even if you think you wont, if it can happen once, it WILL happen again, its in the nature of the realationship.
2006-11-13 21:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Fuzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for counciling ..Dr Phil or someone who can really help both of you other than that try for restraining order .There are second chances but only if both of you want it.
2006-11-13 21:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mudd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one questiion Jennifer....do you like being a punching bag
2006-11-13 21:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, gee let me think
YES
2006-11-13 21:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its good for all of you. so go ahead and try it.
2006-11-13 21:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋