my partner's ex wont consent.She is with someone else as well and they sold the house they had together 2 years ago.what reasons could there be..?
2006-11-13 20:40:45 · 24 answers · asked by foxy06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would have to agree with control. She wants to control every aspect of his life and doesn't want to see him move on. She doesn't want him but doesn't want anyone else to have him either.
2006-11-13 20:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by jdhs 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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She has economical reasons. A divorce always asks money, and if the economy of your ex's has based on shared money (and if your partner has been responsible for remarkable part of it), this can be an important aspect.
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She is emotional uncertain. Your partner, no matter which reason has led to the end of their relationship, is still remembering your partner. It seems that, after awhile, people forget bad things and remember the good ones. Your partner may still be in some peculiar way familiar for her.
I think that you have to wait. Time is the best medicine at least against the symptom 2.
2006-11-13 20:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by silberstein_9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. Your partner is telling you this, or do you know it for a fact?
Even in the USA with its somewhat draconian divorce laws, MOST states have no fault divorces now. Research the states where you could move to to get a quicker divorce without needing her consent if you are currently in a state where that is still required.
Let's face it, if your partner wanted a divroce, HE would find a way! Has he even consulted a lawyer? I'm guessing not from the sounds of it.
Something is not quite right here on the evidence presented.
2006-11-13 20:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Gillian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to turn loose of him evidently.
She could still be carrying a torch for him.
She could just Be mean as heck.
But she will not have to consent for him to get a divorce.
differences will get anyone a divorce. If there are lots of money there that could be a key role for her behavior.
2006-11-13 20:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
there has to be a valid reason why, oterwise it could be forced to proceed. Unfortunately, not everyone can let go, and often cling on , with the slightest bit of hope that the relationship will re-kindle.
2006-11-13 21:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spite
2006-11-13 20:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by Martin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
people may nt want a divorce cuz
1. they may have children and they wudnt wanna braek up the home becuz of the kids
2. because they want to make the marriage work
3. cuz they still luv their spouse
4. cuz it becuz of thier religion-sum religions dun allow divorces
it cud be becuz she may still luv her man an dshe cant let go
2006-11-13 20:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by brawneyedempress 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some states don't require consent. Control or love. It's possible for one person to still love and the other not to...but that is a losing battle.
2006-11-13 20:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by intrigue899 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She can't let go and everyone is right saying control/spite she is punishing him and herself even though she is with someone else can you speak to her or is she beyond that?
2006-11-13 22:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by currynut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is to much hassle or maybe she has some glimmering hope that one day they might get back together. That or she's just being a complete b*tch
2006-11-13 20:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by rach 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋