i like someone and he likes me too but we prefered to b just friends now coz i m older than him a year in age but it's not the problem the problem is i'm working now and he still studying and i dont know when he will finish his college ...we are both afraid that anyone will propose to me i really like him so much even my mom likes him and respects him for his decision that we still b friends till sth can happen but she always says that if anyone propose i must think of it and dont refuse for sth im not sue it will happen or not..and someone proposed and i didnt tell my mother and i refused him...but i'm so confused..
2006-11-13 20:31:58 · 9 answers · asked by www 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey y are u confused if u really like him then wat is the problem ok if he finishes his college a year later nothing happens an he can work as well so u can get engaged now only with out fearing for some one else proposing to u or him . who knows wat will be the person whom u will get engaged to . it seems this chap is ok and luves u as well as he has tried to be with u as a frend as well this shows his genuine luv towards u dont loose him baby
2006-11-13 20:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by ravishr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After the child is born have the paternity scan regardless. If the child is yours then it is yours. Now that used to be sensible. BUT, if the child is not yours then 2 matters can occur, you'll be able to receive the little one or reject the little one. Either method the child merits to have a scientific historical past of his organic father and that part of the household. Adopted youngsters are in many instances scoffed at however they're selected, in many instances fought for and continuously desired. That is greater than a few traditional youngsters can say. So what ever you do, what ever you make a decision, get the child a scientific historical past of his organic father regardless of who that possibly.
2016-09-01 12:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like someone whether his 5 years older than him or if your working and his studying it doesn't matter when it comes to love what important is you love each other. why do you have to wait for him to be graduated when the two of you can be together even if he doesn't graduated yet. you'll only regret if he already find somebody else instead it should be you not her. you have to decide now or it will be too late for tomorrow.
2006-11-13 20:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by vodka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ou cannot marry someone just becasue you are afraid that someone else will not propose to you.... You need to love the person who you marry...marriage is hard enough when two people are in love...even harer when one has doubts. Do marry cuse mom wants you to... you a women of the 21st century.. you do not need to be married to live a full life
2006-11-13 20:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you might need to go to college cause I got lost reading your question. Secondly, do whatever you feel that is right. Dont let anything or anyone influence you, cause in the end, its you that got to live with it.
2006-11-13 20:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by darkomega168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confusion indicates you are NOT ready...so no is a good answer....wait honey yuhave the time i wish i had....no details here...i wish you the best.
Lioncourt
2006-11-13 20:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u and your parents likes him than you wait for him or get engage first...but make sure both of u love each other
2006-11-13 20:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by pumpinkhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not think negatively or speak negatively. Think positively and speak positively. You will not have confusion.
2006-11-13 20:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry no confusion is goin' to steal 'yo man...
2006-11-13 21:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋