2006-11-13 20:21:19 · 7 answers · asked by jam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Jealousy.
Fear.
Rivalry.
Drama.
Boredom.
Those are the primary reasons why people gossip. And some of it is true; some not.
If you LISTEN to gossip; chances are YOU are also being the topic OF gossip. Remember that.
If you consider gossipers as "friends" I advise your reassessing your concept and requirements of having and/or being friends.
If you are the butt of gossip whispers, I recommend your disassociating from that group of people altogether and finding new people to be social with.
Either way, gossiping hurts and should not be supported.
Thanks for writing and good luck to you!
2006-11-13 20:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if gossip was not in our lips, or minds, the world will be boring isn,t it? for a gossip make a good story for every one to listen. just imagine having to know about what vicktoria beckhams is eating or wearing. what your friends did last night that may make you laugh especially if you hear it from one of your sisters. some times gossip teach us a lesson , for example if you happen to be sleeping unoticed in your room, and your friends were sitting in the launge gossiping about how your mouth smells, and how dirty your hair looks, this may sound very shameful if they have to tell you in person isn,t it, but because you happen to hear the gossip, you may stand up and do something about your mouth, and wash your hair so clean that your friends will noticed the difference, further more you may end up going to the dentist to recomment a better tooth paste or something. now don,t you think it will be embarrassing if i come straight to you and say, you need to do something about your hair and mouth, they smells very terrible. just like that.its not only that but most gossips tells us a reason or teach us to be copy cats. a gossip is like a smile, it spreads like a disease, it can be positive and negative at the same time. good luck
2006-11-14 04:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by nyango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz they're immature and childish!
you know what, dont bother thinking of such people as your friend, it's not worth it!
you'll someday find someone you can call a friend who would appreciates you they way you are and would never gossip about you, trust me!
stop being their friend!
2006-11-14 04:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have nothing better to do.
They're life is worthless and they try to make
themselves feel better by talking about other
people..
2006-11-14 04:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by just another kid. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is- what are you trying to say exactly? Learn to spell as well.
2006-11-14 04:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by caviegold 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
coz they don't have other work
2006-11-14 06:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by TIMEPASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are jealous
2006-11-14 09:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋