Is she hinting me?
i have a friend that i met from work and we've been hanging out a lot for the past couple of months and she send me a text saying" would u ever be with a girl?" and "i said i dunno y have u?" and she replied back "i have never been in a relationship with a girl but wouldnt it bey the same? i mean girls can kiss and cuddle plus we're not jerks and yes i have thought" do u think shes hinting me at something? thats not the first time shes asked me that...shell say sexual stuff to me but as a joke..but shes still obssessed about her ex. &she talks about him 24/7 so i think she just feels hurt and is wonderin if it would be diff with a girl. im confused..the wierd thing is i have thought about it before (how it would be to be with her)but we're both i think depressed, &have similar problems &thats prob the only reason i have thought about it. Also once at the mall i brought up the fact of how people would be reacting if we walked together holding hands &she said we should try it to see
2006-11-13 19:25:08 · 6 answers · asked by tragickingdom 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It sounds like she is really into you. Sometimes you can't really tell how someone feels about you when you are in the moment, but to me it sounds like she is really hitting on you. You should try it out if you really want to. I mean, even if the two of you are depressed and that leads to something, it's not bad in my opinion. Leaning on someone and enjoying someone can be very therapudic, and exploring that side of sexuality might be a once in a lifetime experience for you.
2006-11-13 21:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh for crying out loud, don't make it all dramitized, just ASK her what's up with the questions and stuff. Don't make it such a big deal. Just know what you will reply if it turns out she is interested in you. Be prepared. But just be honest and open about whats on your mind. Friends do that anyway!
2006-11-14 03:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tesra 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like she is definitely interested in at least experimenting with you, but I strongly recommend you both resolve your own issues first, such as her obsession with her ex and both of you being depressed. If you both are well and both feel like exploring, I would say go right ahead at that time. Good luck!
2006-11-14 03:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a matter to settle within your own limits as if you are going to follow others instructions u will definitely get into trouble.
2006-11-14 03:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Muzammil S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE !!
homosexuallity is wrong.. period!!!
oh by the way ..
she sounds lil sad and lil desparte and lil pathatic cause she lost her bf and now shes replacing him with you .. she sounds like one of these girls " oh my bf dumped and everyone say being lesbian bi is ok and i got a very close friend been hanging out having a good time so why dont i just be bi safes a lots of stress"
shes kinda using you .. shes turning u to bi so u can ruin ur life just like she already has ruined her life .. cause let me u tell u something lol .. ****** up ppl try so hard to turn good ppl to ****** up too so they wouldnt feel lil odd or losers ,,
havent u ever seen smoking teenagers they try so hard to get their friends to smoke too ..
you really sound like a wonderful girl you can do better than having a gf .. dont come to that level ..
goooooooooooood luck
bye :)
2006-11-14 03:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
she's very curious and very interested in you...play it slowly --she's not too sure of herself yet.
2006-11-14 04:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋