What is the name of this movie? Young white woman/chinese man have torrid affair?

Question

I am afraid I don't have much more info than that. I saw it YEARS ago, probably 10, and I don't remember much. I want to say that it has a short title like "The -------". Maybe "The Affair" Something like that. It had pretty graphic love scenes... Please help!

Answer 1

It's called The Lover. See my answers for complete info on movie.